I've gone on two dates (really fun and clicking too) with this lady and for the third date I'm thinking of her meeting two of my closest friends (not family) for dinner. Is this too soon?
2006-10-09 19:24:55 · 15 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would it be too soon?
Introduce her as your date or whatever you prefer to call her (friend, maybe?).
It might sound too soon to call her your girlfriend, if that is what you are implying.
But some relationships do move that quickly.
2006-10-09 19:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be, if your friends like her and then they try to hook up with her. Let her fall in love with you a little more or liking you a little more and then introduce more people. See how it goes with just the 2 of you first. Sometimes your closest friends can be your worst enemies when women are involved. You didn't say if your friends were men or women? And did you ever see the show Nip/Tuck? Watch it then you'll understand more of what I mean!
2006-10-10 02:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by allyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is too soon. Two dates does not mean that you know her. It means that you are getting to know her, and since you are getting to know someone, this should not be done with others around. There may be some things that she would want to reveal to you about herself, and she wouldn't in the presence of others.
Then you might never learn this about her, if she thinks that she always has to worry about you having her meet new friends of yours, and she will start to clam up about certain things with you, because she will think that you will reveal them to your other friends. You don't even know how she would feel about that.
It's too soon to introduce other people into that relationship.
2006-10-10 02:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by classyjazzcreations 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too early. I did that on the 5th date or so. My friend got drunk and asked "testing questions" when I went to the bathroom.
They were made up questions too and made me look like a loser. Don't leave your friends alone with your date. They may interrogate.
2006-10-10 02:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its Ok, I would love my man to want to show me off to his friends. It means he is proud to be seen with me and wants to include me in his life. If I were her, I would feel very special that you would even want me to meet your closest friends after such a short period of time. Go for it.
2006-10-10 02:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how long have you been going out with that person. If it is long enuf than u should first bring ur partner to meet your parents.
2006-10-10 02:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by vsiong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not to soon and i think its real nice that you would want her to meet your two best friends hope it works out
2006-10-10 02:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope..in fact it's a great idea! you can tell alot about the lady in how she acts around your friends. it's a great idea! let her know first thou in case she has any objections.
2006-10-10 02:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you've gotten along pretty well, it s/b fine..and your friends may be able to give you feedback too. good luck
2006-10-10 02:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok for me...give me chance to know my date better
2006-10-10 02:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by funky-ira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋