Before I wa married I could never get a date, now that I am married i have women hitting on me all the time. And during times when my wife and I are mad at each other it is hard to not fall into the temptation of cheating?These are girls that I wished I could have dated before I was married, but then they wouldn't give me time. Now I have never cheated but it has crossed my mind? Please just wanted to know what attracts women to married men.
2006-10-09 18:09:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women want what they can not have. And since you are married, techinaclly you are off limits. So, now you're a chick magnet..sucks don't it? But please, for your wifes sake, don't stray! Even if you are pissed at her...
2006-10-09 18:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its something about the guy being able to commit enough to get married. And that is really awesome to women. But if you were single, they really can't tell that right off so they don't really bother with those guys, cuz they might just be jerks. And really don't cheat on your wife, that is the most cruelest thing you could ever do. No matter what the women look like, you married a woman that will love you regardless. Where as those chicks would still drop you and ignore you if you were single.
2006-10-10 01:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never go for a married man, even if he was unhappy. Do not fall for these other women. My husband (soon to be ex) did and it's the worst thing possible to ever do to your wife. Now I have to put my kids through a divorce and have a total lack of trust for anyone. I know I will have to trust again, but it will be hard and I'm afraid I will be the jealous type that I never understood before. Not all women are attracted to married men and those that are have no respect for the vows you took and they are the ones who are not worth giving the time to.
2006-10-10 01:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by magpie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women see a wedding band as a challenge like a game or a sport. Just to see if they can get you! Others its the thought of having something they cant! Those women arent worth the time of day! Do you think those women would stick around after you left your wife? Would you really ruin a happy marriage for 15 mins with a ho? Plus if you cheat you are labeled! The saying is true buddy, once a cheater always a cheater!
2006-10-10 01:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they want what they cant have and what would you most likely have? Security,money a caring nature. Your wife has something you married her for remember it and remember it well because if you go to temptation you may just lose everything that is important to you. If you dont love your wife finish the marriage but never ever do it to another woman at least give that respect. Your wife gave an still is giving you the time and maybe even children. Its easy to find someone its harder to keep them especially with outside influences.
2006-10-10 01:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married men are "safe". There is no committment issue.
If you are even thinking of cheating then there is a communication problem you and your wife should deal with. My husband travels constantly and the group he goes with deals with this problem often. Women do not approach my husband generally, because he is happily married and they sense this. Women often approach men he travels with who are unhappily married. If you settled for less than you were worth in your marriage, you need to make a decision before children are involved. If you simply have a roving eye, stop. Thinking about cheating is a grave warning sign of marital danger...it isn't a normal part of a loving relationship. Fix the damage before it is too late...see a counselor and invite your wife to go. Communication is a two way street.
2006-10-10 01:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by erlifesaver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What very nice girls want, is the opportunity of getting whatever they want without having commitment.
A wife is going to take the whole package, "the chicks", are looking for a bank account that gives them leissure, and a little bit of sex.
That´s why married men are a temptation. They won't say anything, and won't complain. Why? Because a good wife might find out if he talks.....
2006-10-10 01:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Y. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married men are seen as stable individuals who are not afraid of commitment, who are seen as loving and kind. So you might be showing this image but don't cheat on your wife...get divorced if you're feeling that strongly about cheating but don't hurt her like this. You'll find that the bimbos who are trying to hit on you will dump you after a one night stand and when you're sad and sick..its only your wife who'll stick with you.
2006-10-10 01:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by DrSH 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The women that are attracted to a married man are the ones who don't want a commitment, like marriage or such, in my opinion. They are also 1/2 of home wreckers. You married your wife for better or worse. Commitment means even when you are fighting, even when you don't FEEL IN LOVE. If we all went on feelings then we'd all cheat on our spouses. THINKING INSTEAD OF FEELING KEEPS YOU OUT OF TROUBLE. Remember when you married her and your commitment to her.
2006-10-10 01:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most obvious answer is those women might be attracted to you because you are married, which means you represent commitment and a mysterious something that only your wife knows..If not then, those women could just be big flirts..haha..
2006-10-10 01:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by !~bela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. Human beings in general are complicated creatures. We often want what we know we can't have. Things are more exciting that way, and pose a challenge.
Don't cheat on your wife. If it's a temptation you find hard to ignore, you shouldn't be married.
Simple.
2006-10-10 01:13:58 · answer #11 · answered by Medicated Harmony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋