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I love my man and have given him so much!!! A family, my love and i do everything for him!!!
I want to be with this man for the rest of my life!!

2006-10-09 18:54:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

11 answers

You can't MAKE him want to propose to you. Don't act desperate. It will only make him want you less. Trust me, it's better that you allow him to make that sort of decision on his own. If you pressure him, you'll always wonder if he asked you because he WANTED to or if he did it to PLEASE you. Think about it and relax.

2006-10-09 18:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0 0

You said"you have given him so much" , but, Is it what he wants, or needs ? Maybe you have given to much. What more can a proposal get him?.It seems like he's got it all already. DOSE HE WANT TO BE WITH YOU FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE ? IF SO forget the proposal.
The Question is when is the wedding.?

2006-10-09 19:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Than be with him you can't honestly believe that you have to be married just to be with him for the rest of your life do you? Marriage doesn't promise anything don't be so naive, my step sister has been with her man for 15 yrs, they have 5 children and they aren't married have talked of it but decided not to! I'm engaged but not because I think it will make him anymore mine than he already is, I just like weddings. Sounds stupid, I know, but it's true. I already know we're going to be together forever and I don't need marriage to prove that to me! It sounds to me like you're looking for validation in your relationship, you don't need a ring, wedding, or a marriage license just to prove what you already know! You can't MAKE him propose! You have to be patient, we didn't even have a title for our relationship until the beginning of this year we've been dating for 2 yrs we even had a child. He finally said I want to be your boyfriend and You be my girlfriend and then a month later he proposed to me!! Life and men are strange so be patient, he'll come around or like I said earlier he may not see a point in marriage if he knows that y'all are going to be together forever anyway!!! My fiance told me the only reason he wants to get married is because he knows how much I like weddings, that may sound weird to some but we know what we're doing and we don't need marriage to validate that! You should trust and believe in your relationship also!

2006-10-09 19:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0 0

how about if you propose to him. Get down on your knee with a ring in hand for him.

Otherwise, he has what he needs, why mess it up with marriage he might think.

It is said, why by the cow when you get free milk.

2006-10-09 19:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0 0

I was in your shoes once ..he gave me a ring said we were engaged a month or two later said no we arent dont know what i was thinking 6 years went by i got tired of waiting and moved the hell out and now he wants me to get married..i suggest leaving him ..im glad now didnt marry him...if a man dont want you theres nothing changing his mind i say tell them to go to hell.

2006-10-09 19:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0 0

Stop doing so much. Not all at once, but slowly. Make him want you. Make him feel like he has a purpose - men like to give, but you are smothering him. Then when he is starting to do for you, TELL HIM what you want. Practice telling him on other things until he gets used to it. You have to be chased to be caught.

2006-10-09 18:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by redplanet 2 · 1 0

Ask him if signing a prenubtial agreement will make him want to propose!?

2006-10-09 19:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by cute 1 · 0 0

The way to a man's heart is through his stomach...Cook him a big meal and give him hints...Then maybe he will propose.

2006-10-09 18:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0 1

go window shopping and look in the window at rings if he points one out go in and try it on ,. I f he thinks it;s the right time to ask he'll go back and buy it and walla he'll propose mine did.

2006-10-10 00:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by moon 2 · 0 0

Well maybe you could hint to him or something..you seem pretty close with kids and all..its not like he'd be thinking "K this random woman is hinting to marry me...creepy"

2006-10-09 18:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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