my husband said he was coming home 3 days ago after the season was over with the carnival.always has an excuse why he is not coming home and co- workers are lying and saying he is not there and he is on his way home and he is not.Fustared in michiganOur anniversery is the 12 thof oct and he is ignoring me
2006-10-09 19:19:10 · 13 answers · asked by kdkc06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it is a thing called DIVORCE!!! next time you talk to him tell him to never come home that he can stay with the whore he is with and live a very happy carnival life
2006-10-09 23:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i mean obviously if you are married to each other u both love each other a lot, when he does get home, talk to him and try to work things out, tell him how his lies are hurting youre marriage and u feel that u cannot trust him, tell him to get a job nearby, and i mean if he doesnt make an effort to help ur marriage then u dont need to be with a person that doesnt want to treat u the way u should
2006-10-10 02:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by onelove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him on what you suspect. If you think he is having an affair most times you are probably right. Tell him your trust in him is at an all time low and for your marriage to work he will have to get a job where you live. If he balks and pitches a fit, suspect he is having to much " fun" to come home. Pack his bags, as you can do better.
2006-10-10 02:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a marriage! If he lies like that what else is he lying about, once the trust is broken,it's hard to ever believe that person again, if counseling doesn't work well there is not much hope for your marriage to last.
2006-10-10 08:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you husband lies. Why do you say Husbands lie. I have never lied to my wife and never will.
By the way if your husband didn't return his calls most likely he was in jail or with another. Sorry but he lies as you said
2006-10-10 07:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because he dosent really care about you. If he did he would pay you more respect and would actually want to be around you rather than wanting to avoid you. Not to mention that he is probably banging the bearded lady too. You already spend most of your life without him, i would suggest dumping him and spending all of your life without him. Find someone who actually cares
2006-10-10 02:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by shaggybus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he is trying to surprise you. May be he is doing overtime to get more money for the ocassion. Or may be he is not interested in you; It is now on you to decide which one is correct from this one. Wait untill 12th.
2006-10-10 02:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by pesific_boy_curious_2_no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think, one lie to cover another lie, more and more lies, I'd say tell him to get a local job or pack it in...
2006-10-10 02:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not doing what he is suppose to. I would call him on it when he does show his face and let him know that you aren't his door mat.
2006-10-10 02:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to him about it.. if not find another husband!
No one deserves to be treated like that
2006-10-10 02:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by pinxta01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋