I am always finding porn sites on my husbands computer. and like many of you it made me feel insignifigant. So I found a way to make him stop. you can go to internet explorer and click on tools. then click on internet options, then settings, then view files, this will show you everything that has been viewed. double click on one of the sites and it will bring up the site. just right click on one of the porn pictures and then select set as background picture. This turns his screen saver into the porn picture. I did it to my husbands and when he went to sign on it showed the porn site in front of his mother. You should have seen his face. He never watched porn on the computer again. also you can copy the pics and then paste them onto his side as an icon. try it. If you still need help email me at jeanneinbottle@msn.com
2006-10-09 18:36:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you males that see this want to remedy your wife of this problem. Go to tools click it click on internet options and then click to delete all your days activity when you are finished. Problem solved.
2006-10-09 18:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Teacher 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well where do I start. I'm a very happily married man. I have nothing aganist porn. And I would never do or say anything intentionaly to hurt or upset my wife. I have read all the answers posted above and I've found some very interesting. Heres my story. My wife was on the comp. one evening looking for something and a porn site POPS up.(she wasn't looking for porn) She calls me over and says look at this....how did this get here ? I told her, I don't know ? , and was telling her the truth.Well we both looked at it for a few min. and started to laugh. We could see that all involed in the porn were in perfect phy condition and with the help of something they could do thing that are hard to explain. We clicked off the site....and another POPED up.clicked that off and another POPED up. We had to unplug the com to stop the porn from comming up. I rebooted and did as you discribed in traceing internet sites.....and low and behold........page after page of porn. We checked a little further and found who the gulity one was. We have a 15year old daughter and she uses the comp. too. Well my wife and I setteled down .....started to laugh again. Mother and Daughter are going to have a open and honest talk about this little matter. I have to take the comp to the repair shop to clean out the virus that attacked the comp. High Tech is great.....but be careful how you ues it.
By the way I love the way you surprised your husband. Have a good day.
2006-10-10 02:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by R W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it hilarious that many men replied, saying you are childish?!
I say - WAY TO GO. I have never understood this perversion. It is a form of cheating emotionally for many and an instant loss of respect.
I broke up with a man because of a porn problem. It gave me such low self-esteem. I married a man that I trust. I actually used to check the history of the computer for the first year we were together (and his email) to see if he was a secret perv.
Some women don't mind - I do. I married a man that isn't that way.
Put his personal info into the sites so he gets emails at work, or phone calls! Order him some free samples of gay lube or something, and have it sent to work.
If it will impact the situation at all - rent a gay porn movie. Say no to sex and tell him you have plans.
2006-10-09 18:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
While I find that very funny, why would it be such a horrible thing for your husband to watch porn online!!! My fiance probably watches it from time to time, especially when he goes out of town. but that doesn't make me feel insignificant!! From what I know he only watches it when he's unable to watch me!! So make yourself available more often and do what your husband likes and he won't want to watch others!!! Sorry maybe I'm simplifying the problem but my fiance and I have been living together for years and we have sex at least 5 days a week usually more and I make sure i keep things fresh and new, so he doesn't get bored or want to watch porn instead of me!!! Sorry for playing devils advocate!
2006-10-09 19:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very funny.
On the other hand...
I think you're getting some overweight, aren't you?
Have you take a really good look at you lately?
Don't you spend too much time nagging your hubby lately?
How long since you made love last time?
Have you really analyzed the problem?
Well, at least you know that even with your perfect profile going down the hill, he hasn't been tempted to look for a solution on his needs of caring and love outside your front door.
2006-10-09 19:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because YOU feel insignificant doesn't mean other women are as threatened by their husbands viewing porn. I even view porn. I have a significant other who looks at porn but at the end of the day he gets into bed with me. I'm just not insecure enough for it to bother me I guess.
2006-10-09 18:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a fiance that looked at porn. It really bothered me for a few weeks. I finally set down and talked to him about it. I felt all bad like there was something wrong with me. It is not you. It is just a curiosity thing. It was cute how you showed him you knew.
2006-10-09 18:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by timidlady2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.NetDogSoft.com
2006-10-10 03:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you? Why you treating your husband like a kid?... Ooo I'm gonna wash your mouth with soap if you tell me another lie kinda situation. Sigh
Look girl, you've got issues with your husband. Sure he might love you alot but men will like variety. It's a given fact. Be thankful he's only going to porn sites. So life throws you a lemon... how can you make lemonade?
Think about what kinda "porn" he likes and I suppose you'll gain a better understanding of how he likes his bedtime activities.
Look what I'm trying to say is you should be trying to build an open relationship with your man than to try to change him.
2006-10-09 18:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ive done this myself already.put his porn up for screen saver...and dont listen to these men if u let him have sex with your anal, boobs, throat..all that... he will stop...nothing makes them stop not more sex ..not watching them have sex ..not anything..they like it and there is no changing them..the only true way to get back is cheat on them because they cheating also.. its baloney it is just fantasy ..if they do it in their mind they do it with their heart..men s u c k ..plus you always catch them with it sooner or later ..they think their being normal..but if they only knew to lust after others is cheating..If a person really in love with another person you are their fantasy...and period...
2006-10-09 18:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋