Ladies, Would you date a divorce single dad that has full custody ??

Question

I am a divorce single dad that has full custody of my 2 kids..Don't get me wrong,I am proud that I have them.I take good care of them..It just seems that women tend to run away once I tell her my situation. I understand what single moms go through now..

So ladies ,Would you consider dating a divorced single dad???

Overall, I am glad that my kids are taken care of . They know that I love them and I would anything for them..

Positive and negative comments are WELCOME...

Answer 1

heck i married one... so there is nothing wrong with a single divorced dad with full custody... it is great to actually see fathers with full custody these days... good luck and take care of the babies

Answer 2

If I didn't have kids and was too old to have any, then yes, I would date a man with children. However, if I was young enough to have kids or had my own, I would not.

I dated someone with a daughter who was 6 and the ex was involved. I felt like a 3rd. Full custody is impressive. The split family is the one I would avoid, but full custody shows you have integrity. I had a daughter who was 1 and I played favorites. It wasn't on purpose but I just felt so bad about it. I was protective of my daughter and wanted everything to be about her, not the other child. I like his child, but did not have maternal love. Considering it is the woman that often takes a certain role, mixing a family can be dangerous if the children don't understand that she is not a true mother and there will be differences.

The age of the children makes a difference too. Older kids would be harder for a woman to bond with and make create arguments.

Answer 3

I think it is an admirable quality to take custody of your kids as a man. We hear so much about dead beat dads that don't pay child support or even take the time to see their kids. So I would say the answer is yes.

Answer 4

It would depdne on the age of the kids and the quality of the relationship between you and the kids.

I had one relationsihp where the son adored me and the daughter hated me......She really didn't make things easy for us.
She was part of the break up. For now I figure I already raised teenagers and really don't want to go through that again.

Answer 5

After being in your shoes as a single mom, HECK YEAH!!!!! Most woman would unless they are worried about sharing your time and finances. Just keeping looking if that is what you are doing. She is somewhere around the corner waiting to meet you and your kids!!!! She will have a big heart with lots of love to share.. G'LUCK :o)

Answer 6

I would, I think women are more likely to date men, who have children then men are to date women who have children. however I would let the girl meet the children but keep a distance until you know that they too are ready for you to date . . .and if you dont think your going to be with the girl for a long time than dont let the kids get attached . . . !!! I hope that answers your question.

Answer 7

I commend you for all that you have done for your children. Not many men out there would take full responsibility. There are plenty women out there that are not intimidated by the fact that you have full time children, you just havent met the right one yet.

Answer 8

It's great that you are looking after your kids but truthfully, I wouldn't want to date anyone who has kids. Your children would always come first plus you wouldn't have any time to devote to your date.

Answer 9

i would date a divorced single dad. i absolutely love kids. i would love to have kids of my own too one day. so hang in there not all women are afraid of a instant family

Answer 10

i think for a guy to want his kids that bad he takes full custody of them is unreal.!! that is soo nice to hear.

if i wasnt in a relationship and i knew a guy who was mature and responsible enough to raise 2 childrenm on his own i would not hesitate to get to know him better.. :)