2006-10-09 21:56:32 · 20 answers · asked by rinjo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. The problem is that you really didn't' ask us a question. You didn't state what exactly isn't working out. Some things in a marriage can be dealt with and others just can't, such as abuse and cheating. Don't stay in a bad marriage just for the kids. On the other hand if it is something that can be worked out work it out.
2006-10-09 22:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Aberdeen 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can very well understand your pain. But what you require is a determination to make this marriage successful. Please check the following:
1.Are you facing the same problems, which were their in the last marriage. (Then probably you are at fault & you only need to change)
2.If the problemis due to your children, then why did you not clearly discussed this with your this husband before marriage?
3. Please try to make this relationship continue as you only need to compromise and stop expectation from the husband.
4. Please try to give & to give only to your husband for a couple of months & donot expect anything in return.
Try this I hope this will work.
Good luck
2006-10-10 06:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by akela 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Adjusting to a new Family is going to be difficult for your children, you will have to decide on to whom you are going to Support. If your new spouse is trying to be a good Father, you have to stand beside his punishments and guidance, this will cause problems every time. Family counseling is a good idea, and not allowing the children to rule the home is another. Good Luck to you.
2006-10-10 05:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Been there done that. I remarried for the 4th time and finally Im happy with this man. We all make mistakes. Learn from them. Move on. You will either work it out or figure it out.
2006-10-10 05:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU WILL HAVE TO MAKE IT WORK THIS TIME BABY...YOUR CHILDREN ARE BIG ENOUGH YOU JUST CANT GO ON MARRYING ONE AFTER ANOTHER...DO WHAT EVER MAKE THIS MARRIAGE WORK...BELIEVE ME YOU CAN DO IT...DON'T LET THINGS SLIP OUT OF YOUR HANDS..TAKE A GRIP ANALYSE AND CONTROL THE SITUATION FOR YOUR AND YOUR CHILDREN'S SAKE...
2006-10-13 02:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Sorry to hear,
Marriage is like a partnership which works on mutual trust .
1.Pl. trust your partner.
2.Do not compare with ex partner.
If you have other reasons feel free to contact.
Dr.Mojo
e Mail : mojodrmojo@yahoo.com
2006-10-10 05:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I guess it's counselor time....to see if marriage #2 can be saved.
Have you taken into account, adjustment time???
2006-10-10 05:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
and what is your question??? if you want to know if you should stick it out, think about the relationship that your children have with their step parent. if it is really bad then get out. if it is good then try to work it out. good luck
2006-10-10 06:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
better to divorce once more, and search for a good relation which would satisfy you
2006-10-10 06:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by thekkethoppu 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try to understand himself and your childrens
2006-10-10 04:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋