My husband and I have a very open relationship about everything and as gross as this might sound but I'm usually in the R.Room with him while he does his thing..It doesn't bother me to see him sit on the pot! But I have a huge privacy issue, I like to be left alone preferably in an empty house. HOWEVER my huband is angry cause I won't let him in when I'm in there. This is a constant argument between us..nothing that would interfear in the marrage but just somthing I'm sick of hearing him BI*CH about ..lol...(this is a weird question) what should I DO? Let him watch and smell me..or continue with my privacy which I prefer!??
2006-10-11 14:42:37 · 19 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have the same privacy issue. I can go at home ( alone, with the door locked and the fan on and of course the newest issue of Ladies Home Journal ) or at my moms house. My husband knows better than to disturb me. Just sweetly tell him that you're not trying to offend him but it is embarassing for you and when he comes in you feel humiliated. If he loves you, he wouldnt want you to feel bad so he should just "bow out".
2006-10-11 14:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a normal thing between open couples.Like your husband ,i don't care.Hell,i **** with the door open,unless there's somebody over.My wife doesn't mind either,of coarse we have been married 11yrs,and it wasn't always like that.
Thing is it's no big deal,and if you feel more comfortable without him there,then that's your choice and he should understand.
I don't know but if my wife said "honey i would like some privacy"i would give it to her.Everybody is entitled to alone time no matter how close you are in a relationship.
Try not going in when he's in there.Also try to go when he's not around.
I think this is the weirdest question I've ever answered.I hope i helped in in some way,good luck.
2006-10-11 14:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by seandebra17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going in there when he's in there!
Maybe he's just nagging you because he doesn't understand why you have no problem watching him but he can't watch you.
I'm sure he doesn't want to just stand there and watch you.. he probably doesn't see it as a big deal...
But yeah, Give him some privacy.. there are just some things you shouldn't do.. And besides.. don't you think that's gross...what could you possibly be doing in the bathroom while he's in there taking a dump? Applying makeup? that's nasty girl! lol
2006-10-11 14:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by SassySista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never compromise the way you feel if your embarrassed or nervous then don't let him in but in the same respect what would he like to do alone that you have a problem with or would he like a night out with the guys and you haven't quite given in yet?? a relationship goes both ways you give a little he will give a little
2006-10-11 14:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by scharber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ,him his privacy will be all his, if he stops complaining, so you can continue to haveing yours.
Going to the restroom, is a very personal thing, it shouldn't be an argument.
2006-10-11 14:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have our preferences, and tell him that though it does not bother him, that this is YOUR time, and you need to be alone when doing this. Let him know that going to the bathroom is something you don't wish to share with ANYBODY. If he doesn't understand, then something is not completely right here!!! Good luck!! ;-)
2006-10-11 14:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to an agreement and stop using trivial matters to upset the harmony of the marriage.
2006-10-11 14:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you stop going into the R Room then he will have no choice but to stop wanting to be in there with you while you go. he feels that he should be in there because you always go in when he is in there doing his thing. back off him and let him come in once when you are going at it or pretend to go at it then tell him y'all are even. he should leave you alone after that
2006-10-11 14:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U ppl opened up too much
so u have to draw boundries ur self.
2006-10-11 14:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by dilemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋