yes or no?explain!!!
2006-10-11 08:01:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lady Santa 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not if you are with the right person. Love is ever lasting and will not leave.
2006-10-11 08:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that love leaves after marriage. You have to remember that for as hard as you worked with your mate before you were married, the efforts are going to have to be 10-fold during your marriage.
I do believe that love is "forgotten" or misplaced -- that is a better word -- when you get married. There are suddenly all of these other things going on in your life and life really does change so rapidly.
Focus on taking everything day by day to avoid the routine that you speak of. In terms of planning, there will have to be things that you plan far out in your future.
For the time being, just focus on what got you here in the first place and that will most likely be the love that you share with your mate.
Love isn't enough but with a re-dedication to each other, love will always be there and it will be dependable.
In order for any relationship to survive though, there has to be some sort of routine. If you think that life is routine now, wait until you have kids! The diapers will come every couple of hours along with the bottles and the napping and fussy periods, and playdates, and activities, etc.
Relax. Enjoy marriage. Love your mate. Keep the flame alive and watch it grow!
2006-10-11 15:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. A marriage shouldn't be two people spending a life time together just for the heck of it.
A marriage is a life long commitment, for better or worse, with the one you love. A loving and trusting marriages love will never leave. If anything, a marriage will unite the two as a team and teach each spouse how to love one another in even more ways.
A marriage creates more love because it is a bond. The only time love can leave after a marriage is if a spouse commits infidelity or if there is abuse. In a normal marriage, love won't leave, it will be everlasting.
2006-10-11 15:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think "marriage" can make or break a relationship. I like being married because now I know that a lot of the "legal" issues are taken care of, and we can concentrate on good things in the relationship, and grow together. I actually feel *more* love, and more loved, now that we're formally married.
2006-10-11 15:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but love does change. My boyfriend and I met 7 months ago and we just moved in together in August. Things have already changed, not that we don't love each other as much but we have to have some sort of routine, we cohabitate now. Life changes, love changes but do not ever let it go. Change is not always bad, it is inevitable.
2006-10-11 15:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if both of you are willing to work to keep in there. keep it new fresh and exciting. Don't fall into a routine and begin to take each other for granted. It does change but that change for be for the better. Of course complete honesty prior to marraige helps. (That will include sexual desires!)
2006-10-11 15:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married nearly 5 years and honestly the love is stronger now than it was when we were dating and when we were newlyweds. The newlywed stage is very hard. I think some people get disillusioned by it.
If you communicate well with eachother you will only get closer.
2006-10-11 15:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The love won't leave. It's up to you two to make sure the routine doesn't set in...... If you get into a rut, change it!!!
2006-10-11 15:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, it all depends on your definition of "love". If, to you, love is that special way of feeling, with butterflies and quickened pulse, excitement and infatuation, then, yes, that does fade. I don't see it that way, though, and the way I define love means that, not only has it not faded in 20 years of marriage, it has solidified. The definition I use: Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
2006-10-11 15:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i agree , not if you are with the right person. everyday is an adventure , a challenge and a journey! not if you are in the right relationship an BOTH strive for happiness. love does not change. it grows and blossoms in a full bloom through the years!
2006-10-11 15:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋