I mean if I were out of the picture he'd just find someone else to take care of him and his laundry, food needs, sex needs. Maybe I'm not as important to him as I thought I was. Here I am complaining of all he counts on me for, when I can be easily replaced. Am I right?
2006-10-11 07:49:12 · 22 answers · asked by lilmama 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey, as a wife, you are irreplaceable. Marriage is more than sex, food and laundry. It's for richer & poorer, sickness & health, plus having someone there he can count on, to talk with, to cry on, to have kids with, to share dreams with...the list goes on & on. Make him treat you like that, and you treat him like that, and you both will be very happy....
2006-10-11 08:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a question you need to think over in all possible aspects. after reading your question i could understand that you are worried about him and is tensed as to what will happen to him if you leave him without anyone to take care, do you think so that things like sex is important in life or if you replace some one else for this materialistic life , it would help him, may be not ,you might replace yourself physically but how about the love and the care you have towards him and he shows to you , none of you can replace with each other in this aspect because love cannot be exchanged, think twice before you take any fighter step. it is not only your life but also you husband's life and if you have children ls their life related question and things will take an entire different turn if you take any step in haste,
i dint mind answering any of your further queries in this aspect, feel free to mail me at puneethforu@yahoo.co.in
2006-10-11 15:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by kumar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that I would need more information on the basis for your question.
Let's be straight about one thing right off the bat, EVERY man needs a great woman in his life -- if only to take care of his every wish, need and desire.
If there are problems in your marriage and you are starting to doubt the validity of why you are in each other's lives ... I would suggest counseling. I would go by yourself first and then discover what it is that you really need out of your life. Start by evaluating what you need tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, 2 years from now, 5 years from now, etc.
If you find that you need him and can accept the way in which he needs you, then I think that you have your answer.
Best of luck to you with this.
2006-10-11 14:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES.your husband needs you and needs you very badly,do not feel insecure because this feeling can lead to lots of unnecessary fear of lost,instead of asking yourself does he needs me? Ask yourself,have i been doing my duty as a wife?Have i given him the support he needs.A marriage is very sacred,is an union of two beautiful people and must be kept to the end.Besides food and sex you needs lots gratitude and sincerity to maintain a happy family.Best wishes for a happy and lasting marriage
2006-10-11 15:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by tan e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are right. The grass is not always green on the other side. Just trust in God and believe that your husband sees you beyond the things you think you are. Most importantly, have more confidence in yourself that you are so much more to him than a cleaning lady and someone who provides relations. Pray for yourself and your husband to maintain a strong bond. God Bless you
2006-10-11 14:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Selah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Need is not the issue............ want is the issue. Do you both want to be exclusive with each other? Do you both want to spend you life/future together?
You will be happier once you realize that you are important and deserve to be happy. Whether that means you are in a relationship or not you can clarify that for yourself. You might want to consider going for counseling to help you with esteem issues and to help you decide what you are looking for.
2006-10-11 14:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your assumption is frightening -- two people should not marry because of needing each other. As a matter of fact, any person who needs another person in order to survive is not marriage material. A person should demonstrate the ability to support himself or herself completely as a prerequisite to marriage. I hope you soon post yet another question explaining where all your hurt and angry feelings are coming from.
2006-10-11 14:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to change your attitude. Why would you think of yourself in those terms - replaceable?
We're all replaceable - if you want to think that way. My wife could find another man to take care of her. I could find another woman, etc. But I don't and she doesn't because we're committed and we love each other.
What brought this on? Are you feeling blue? Did he do something to you? You are strong, confident, free and loveable - why would he want to replace that?
FP
2006-10-11 14:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about your companionship, friendship, trust, openness, sharing and the belief that you belong to him, can it be replaced on the minute notice, or requires a lot of time to build together.
2006-10-11 14:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can be replaced if that is the only measure you use.
Partners have to have a bond to not be replaceable
2006-10-11 14:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋