i always promised myself that i would only give oral pleasure to the man that i marry and i did but i dont do it alot maybe every 4-5 months and he ask for it but not often i thought men were really into getting there perker sucked do you think i might be bad at it and how to improve
2006-10-11 22:12:21 · 24 answers · asked by khissmyputtytat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most men love oral sex. My guess is he feels akward about asking for it. First buy a book, Amazon has many titles to choose from. Next just do it, especially when he is not expecting it. Maybe he is watching a football game. Just look him in the eye and go for it. He may not be like most men but if he is he will want it every week.
2006-10-12 08:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two things could be going on. #1 maybe he doesn't ask for it because he doesn't want to make you feel uncomfortable. #2 Maybe he doesn't ask for it because you're not good at it. You have to learn how to take your queues from your husband. If you are going down on him, and he can barely contain himself, and when he reaches peak, he almost explodes, then you are doing a good job. If he just lays there and let's you do whatever you think you're doing, then you probably aren't doing a good job. If you are really interested in having a good time ask him how he likes it done, a man will be more shy to show a woman because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings, but because you showed enough interest to ask him what he wants, that will be a turn on for him. Most men like it deep and long. You be the aggressor in this situation if it is important for you. You don't want your husband to start paying for blow jobs, and yes that is considered cheating, when he has a do-it-yourself er at home.
2006-10-12 01:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not necessary!If you two still have sex like you used to, then he is pleased by you without the oral sex.Not every guy likes oral that often.At least I think so.
2006-10-11 22:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by bilezlatko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful of scraping him with your teeth, don't try to suck his lungs through his penis, be gentle yet firm.
Think of it the same way you make love, it's not a race to the finish. Spend time kissing and caressing it. If you work too hard too soon, you'll end up with a sore face and no results.
Maybe he's too afraid of hurting your feelings to tell you what really works for him. Each man is different in this area, but pain is typically not a desired result. If he doesn't offer suggestions, ask him to guide you through it.
He can tell you better than we can.
2006-10-11 22:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The vagina is an amzing and beautiful thing to us. It's where we know it will feel good to our penis for sure. Most are into oral sex because we want to pleasure the vagina to an orgasm. We want to taste the deliciousness of it. Smell the sweet aroma that it makes and feel with our tongue the texture of the lips. It's purely a physical thing, nothing to do with love or any of that romantic crap.
2016-03-28 06:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Gail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your guy likes getting his weiner sucked but doesn't want you to feel pressured into doing it. It doesn't neccesarily mean that you are bad at it. I had the same problem some years ago with my husband, he would perform oral on me and I would not reciprocate because I didn't feel that I was good at it. One day I decided to try it and he loved it. Later we discussed it and I found that he was ok with me not returning the favor if I didn't feel comfortable with it but that wasn't the problem at all. Talk to your guy about your feelings that's the only way for you to find out if you need improvement. Good luck.
2006-10-12 00:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by juicie813 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've heard the quote from a man "The worst ******** I ever had was fantastic!" The total making love/having sex experience encompasses all aspects of the body. The Bible says when you get married your bodies become one. Enjoy his and let him enjoy yours. It's beautiful. Don't wait for him to ask for it if you want to do it. He'll love it every time. Some women, of course, would never do it. It's a matter of preference. How to improve? Practice, practice, practice!
2006-10-11 23:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldnt tell you if your bad at it or not but I can tell you most guys do like it. The only way to improve is to ask him what he likes. Also see what gets the biggest rise out of him. Some girls can get a guy off in 20 minutes others are so good they can do it in 30 seconds. Just find out what he likes. The faster he ejaculates the better you are
2006-10-11 22:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May by hes actual a nice guy and doesn't feel the need to perisher you??
As for being bad (lets admit it even bad sex is pretty dam good) can't help ya there, Girl friend said she watched porno to get the feel for things? I'd say getting your partner to talk or at least mone when your doing something they like.. you get that instant that got em!
2006-10-11 23:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not that your bad at it. It is just that some guys don't get nothing out of it. I know this because I am one of those guys. My girlfriend does it sometimes for me but not often because I don't get anything out of her doing it. But there are things you can try that might help him get something out of it. Put a ice cube in your mouth until it gets really cold in your mouth. Then spit the ice cube out and suck it. Have fun and experiment with different things alot.
2006-10-11 22:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋