2006-10-12 09:02:03 · 18 answers · asked by big daddy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Send yourself flowers to your job, but put in the card that its from a secret admire. When you get home thank him for the flowers. But of course he's going to say what flowers. Say that was cute and read him the little card inside. OH their not from you.......hmmm just look puzzled like you have NO idea who they are from, like there are just so many men who admire you. That is going to be on his mind and it will make him step his game up! Trust me jealousy and the feeling of having your territory invaded will jump start his desire and interest in you.!!! Good luck!!!
2006-10-12 09:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. Most men are pretty much the same when it comes to paying attention to their spouse. There is always the sports thing whether it be tv or going to actual games. I don't know how long you have been married, but, sometimes when you just do your own thing and let him be, they come around. Make a nice evening for both of you, of course, make sure he is not busy with SPORTS, wear something extra special, I think all you need is a little reassurance of his love for you. I swear, if men would just realize this, they could have so much more time in front of that stupid tv. Just remember, because he puts sports or whatever his passion is, in front of you, doesn't mean you don't still light up his world. Marriage is coming together as one, spiritually, but it doesn't mean that each person has to give up what they enjoyed doing before the unity. Good luck and love.
2006-10-12 16:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you must ask yourself, why you really think, that he isn't paying you enough attention. Then you must ask him the same question and after that you must ask him, if he feels neglected by you. You may be surprised, what will be his answer! And then you must both work on this, or it will never happen! Good luck to you both.
2006-10-12 16:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Elize-Helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to make him jealous. Don't go to far as in cheating but maybe give him an idea that you may be looking at someone else. Another way is to find out what he wants from you, better sex, sexy dress. I hope this helps and if you need to talk you can email me at ziggyinme@yahoo.com
2006-10-12 16:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by ziggyinme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a near by salon and get a make over...get into shape and go on the net and read up on sex! every thing with a men is mostly physical...so you have to keep his attention once you get it!
2006-10-12 16:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by cody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby and when he does try to get your attention totally freaking ignore him. It works everytime with my husband. Drives him batty. I think that he NEVER thinks about it until he is the one being ignored.
2006-10-12 16:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by lookingfor_mrrightnow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex always gets a guys attention. Variety is key though. Try new things and let him know you are up for anything. You will have his undivided attention.
2006-10-12 16:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reverse psychology. Ignore him. It's the only thing that works with my husband. Most men are pretty needy. He'll seek you out.
2006-10-12 16:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what did you do beefier that is not happening now. Do you have more interests, duties,some thing that is taking away from good time with your husband. Make sure the time you do spend with him is quality time not getting him to do chores
2006-10-12 16:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay more attention to him. He should follow suit.
2006-10-12 16:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋