2006-10-12 18:08:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
find another one to love
2006-10-12 18:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one says you have to "forget" a loved one. Be happy in the fact you shared time and part of your life with someone who made you love them. Remember the good times- but dont forget the reasons why it didnt work. You ended it for a reason. Make the lesson and use it in your next relationship.
It sounds bad- but the easiest way to forget an ex is date like crazy. Just have firstand second dates with a bunch of guys- remember how good and fun those beginning dates are?? That is what you need- to laugh and enjoy life. Life owes you no favors and crying over a lost love helps no one.
2006-10-12 18:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the truth is that there is no easy way. You just have to let the healing process take place and live life one step at a time.
For awhile everything you see of do will remind you of this person. This is where a good support system is needed. If you have people to support you, embrace them. If not join a support group be it online or in person.
Get a new hobby. Do something that you have always wanted to do but have never done.
Have a good cry. Everyone needs a good cry every now and again.
I hope that you are able to cope with whatever has happened to you and that you know, whatever position you are in at this moment there is always someone out there who wants to help you and who cares for you.
Good luck.
2006-10-12 18:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way to forget a person that you loved, over time those feelings will be less intense but its gonna take some time, my suggestion is to keep yourself busy, surround yourself with friends and family. Go out and have a good time, love yourself... letting go of someone you love can be so hard on your heart and your mind. There are no easy ways to forget...Hold your head up, dont let it get to your confidence and accept things as they are. Life will go on and you will find someone in time that will never wanna let you go. Until then just keep yourself open ... Try going out and doing something that you loved to do before you met this person. Discover who you are again... Give yourself time to heal your heart... Its not the end of the world but a new beginning for you..
2006-10-12 18:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by beautifullybroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guarentee everyone here will suggest going out with friends, trying not to think of them. Don't listen to that. It doesn't work, it's only a temporary fix. You'll feel fine with your friends, of course, that's obvious. Your question is, when you're home alone and it stings like hell and your mind starts to wonder to them--then what? You force them out of your mind by remembering whatever it was that made the two of you fail. Hold on to that, and then throw it out of the window. Tell yourself, you deserve better-and mean it. Don't rely on other people to reassure you, all you need is your own strength. I know you have it, we all do. Just have to be confident enough to listen. Tell yourself that you're FREE. Do you know how great that is? Rely on you. Become independent. It's the best thing that could ever happen to someone, so take advantage of it. Forget them, be you. <3
2006-10-12 18:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never forget them, but to make you feel better about it surround yourself with the love of the others that are still there in your life. Although there's pain when someone leaves, it's only caused by the blessings that they have left behind in our hearts when they go.
2006-10-12 18:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by rowster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not an easy way.You will have flash backs all your life.If you really loved that person,that is what will happen.But remember the good time you had with that person,never will hurt you.That will give you more power to go on in your life,and try to find a new an better love.Good and interesting question.Good luck.
2006-10-12 18:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? Even if things didn't work out, I'm sure you took something away from the relationship that will help you grow. To forget the person is to forget what you learned from them.
2006-10-12 18:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really forget them, you just learn how to live without them and in time it just gets easier. Keep yourself busy, either with work, friends or a hobby you enjoy. In the beginning, it was easier for me when I stopped going to the places he/I used to go to. As my heart learned to let go, those same places stopped being a burden and I was able to enjoy them again w/o being sad.
2006-10-12 18:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by aweety69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forget them, as you grow older you will learn how to live with it, and then you will remember only the good times and not the bad times
2006-10-12 21:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by B.A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget them. If they've passed on, remember the good times and what they meant to you. It makes the pain less
2006-10-12 18:13:01 · answer #11 · answered by eriurana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋