he is always nagging me and yelling at me and barking orders at me.......and finds it also necessary to control my every move...I feel smothered and trapped
2006-10-12 20:13:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is unhappy, and trying to make you miserable as well. Insist on some changes in his attitude with you. If he doesn't comply, do not stay in this relationship, you will wind up just like him, angry at the world!
2006-10-12 21:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are smothered and you are trapped,so you have the right to feel like that. Hes a control freak and control freaks seems to never get enough control ,so they get worse. I feel that if you wanted to be controlled that you will still be staying with your parents.Don't let that man control you because controlling husbands end up being abusive husbands and I know that you don't want that and if you have kids, you don't want to put your kids through it
2006-10-13 04:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by monkeycmonkeedo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a long-time divorce attorney, I have bad news for you. It is not likely to get better. Unless you can accept this behavior pattern, starting looking ahead to life on the other side--without him. Start to plan financially, socially, and emotionally what you will need to be satisfied, happy, and in good shape.
2006-10-13 03:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by sochiswim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband harass's you because he does love you. Mine harasses and calls me every 2 min to see if I am talking to someone else's hubby so I better go not that i was welcome but only bc i am an insomniac too and up studying. I really do wish you 2 well. Good night and Sweet Dreams.
2006-10-13 03:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by SweetIceCreamBonita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Dee,
Maybe we should talk about this at the office one day this week!?
See you at 3pm on Monday & we can trade horror stories! Mine are a bit outdated & different than yours, but we can still comiserate! Love Ya~Me!
2006-10-15 02:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by prettygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his a** to the curb and find someone better.
2006-10-13 03:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by jeffreed_661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh...well, doesnt he sound like the perfect man...tell him to chill out...or treat him the same way so he knows how it feels
2006-10-13 03:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by hwall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he doesn't change the way he acts about all that stuff
that he is going to loose you and if he didn't change then just dump him.
2006-10-13 03:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by jesica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SIT HIM DOWN AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT WHAT IS GIONG ON. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO ANY SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE. TRY THAT AND WHEN YOU DO ASK HIM TO KEEP ANOPEN MIND AND PLEASE LISTEN TO YOUR CONCERNS. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-13 03:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by barry g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have an affair. call me
2006-10-13 03:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋