if your husband had no sex drive and yours is through the roof is it cheating if you talk to guys on lineand your husband is angry about it but he doesnt want to talk to you about whats going of and you get more frustrated day by day and it causes a lot of stress and then we get sick we disagree about every thing and when i try to talk he ignores me what do i do
2006-10-12 18:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by gloria s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think it is cheating but what kind of relationship is it if you can't respect his wishes not to chat to guys? If you are having issues with your husband talk to him and if you can't seem to find a way, talk to a professional to get answers, not someone on the net. Because the guys you are talking to are probably not out for your best interests, they are trying to fullfill their own needs.
2006-10-12 18:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by MightyManMichael 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to replace your husband by chatting online. It doesn't matter if it's considered cheating. You have a broken marriage and it makes you unhappy. The easy, dysfunctional way is to get validation online. You can do that but what will help you most is counseling. This is a big issue. I wouldn't recommend forming new relationships when you need to focus on the one you already have. You will not be truly happy doing this. Counseling...for you both.
2006-10-12 18:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by DanaZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried a vibrator? That may actually get your husband to want you more than knowing you are chatting on-line with men.
Guys dont like to "talk" they see it as they did something wrong. You need to swallow your pride and do something really nice for him. Does he like a certain meal? a certain drink? Make an evening just for him. If you make him feel special and important he will want to prove he is worthly of that honor. Guys love attention.When was the last time you - made him his favorite dinner? or rented his favorite movies? bought him sports tickets? A little niceness to a guy and he will be better than an on-line lover.
2006-10-12 18:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your marriage is in trouble. I dont' think it is cheating to talk to guys online as long as you are not planning on getting together with them. It sounds like you need more intimacy with your husband. Even if you have different sex drives there are other ways to be intimate than sexual intercourse. If you are getting that intimacy with your husband you wouldn't be searching for it online. I went through that with my now ex-husband. We became more like roomates than husband and wife. That and other issues eventually led to me leaving him. You and your husband should try counseling. Communication is the key to any successful rrelationship. If you guys don't talk about what is going onyour relationship is probably not going to survive.
2006-10-12 18:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Stephani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly it may appear cheating yet in maximum case isn't because of fact all of us want acquaintances and sometime the only that are your pal interior the actual worldwide won't be your reliable pal after all so it quite is superb to come back on line and ask human beings and spot what they are going to say notwithstanding that is relies upon on what verbal substitute you the two have along with her or him. if that is like a reliable relationship verbal substitute than specific you're cheating yet whilst no longer relationship verbal substitute that it quite is okay. i'm single so i do no longer understand if I genuinely have a GF how will she react yet all i understand she would be in a position to get indignant approximately it so the excellent thank you to make it no longer look like cheating is to tell your important different or boyfriend which you have acquaintances on line and you want to be their acquaintances and want to talk to them so. you the two ought to understand one yet another first and spot what you the two agree on.
2016-10-19 07:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by harte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the marraige worth saving? What are you looking for with these guys online? If you are being untrue to him it's cheating if you aren't then it's not. If you have to ask you probably are doing something you feel you shouldn't be.
2006-10-12 18:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just going to make it worse, your husband has issues, i think you wud be better off finding a solution to your marrage first before you get attached to some bonehead on the internet, they got problems also, you will have the same problem with someone else
2006-10-12 18:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by menguss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you won't do it in front of him or you have to hide what you're doing, it's cheating.
2006-10-12 18:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-12 18:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋