How do you see this...what if she says that its my habit to talk to anybody for hours...not just my opposite sex friends. i feel bad when she continues to talk to her male friends for hours? whats wrong? whats the solution?
(we are committed to marry soon)
2006-10-16 11:14:06 · 9 answers · asked by ram 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's nothing wrong with her having friends of the opposite sex but if she is spending most of her time talking to them, that is time she's taking away from spending with u. If u are to get married soon, it would be wise to resolve this issue as u don't want it to be a problem for u later on down the line.
2006-10-16 11:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously seem to have some kind of trust issue going on. My b/f and I have friends of the opposite sex and don't have a problem with it. Some were friends before we got together and some are since we have been together. I trust him, and he trusts me. We come home and tell each other about the meetings and the conversations. If we didn't, then I might be worried. Try to TRUST>
2006-10-16 11:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust her. That's the only way because if you jump down her throat about it, you will push her away, and she might start to resent you instead of love you. And you may push her away so much to as she doen't want to get married no more. I had a boy friend not long ago, and I was always on the phone, he did the same thing and it pissed me off, then he tried to get revenge by hanging out with females and attempting to go out of town with them, and that made me not trust him, and eventually, we broke up. We were near getting married too. So don't do that. Sit her down and talk to her, at least she didn't wait until you guys were married to start bringing up her friends. Why don'y u ask her can u meet them, I let me ex meet all my friends just to show him that he didn't have a thing to worry about. I was committed to just him, and no one could replace him, I knew what I had...until jealousy blinded him.
2006-10-16 11:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by missinterlectual 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound way young and inexperienced for one.
Ignore all the blah blah blah from women with 'men friends'.
It's bull$hit!
My woman would have more respect for me than to talk for hours like that.
The fact of the matter is her 'friends' just want a chance in her panties.
My brother once told me he had NEVER had a woman friend...just women he has not screwed yet.
She may be naive and not realize this just like the women that have commented.
Or like many of these women still in denial she secretly enjoys the male attention.
2006-10-16 12:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they were friends and they talked this much before you came along, then I think she deserves the benefit of the doubt. I know that I had a friend that was a girl and we were just friends, and we would talk for hours. Girls and guys can be just friends!!!
2006-10-16 14:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no longer a reliable thought in case you're shy or bashful in any respect. additionally it can be a contemplate whether you're no longer used to how adult adult males act (probable in case you had no brothers or something). the certainty is not any remember how secretive you reside on your guy or woman, they are nevertheless going to comprehend issues approximately you you may no longer % them to. Any time you're doing or announcing something you may no longer % them to comprehend approximately, they in all probability will besides. it quite is not any distinctive than with a female roommate, yet maximum females persons are extra secretive around adult adult males than they are fellow women persons. If the assumption of them bringing some female you have in no way met decrease back on your place is undesirable, or in case you do no longer in basic terms like the assumption of seeing some naughty video clips and magazines laying around, then its in all probability a nasty thought. yet once you're open minded and are not bashful, you have an surprising time alongside with your opposite-intercourse roomies! ultimately, confirm the two certainly one of them are not warm, reason which could quite make somebody uncomfortable. And in case you date one, the different could get jealous. Plus in case you wreck up with him, then he will in all probability pass away too. Its a messy subject.
2016-10-19 12:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have male friends also but I also have respect for my partner, She has to learn the proper time for talking for hours is not when her man is home.
2006-10-16 11:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by mtd29485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my best friend is a guy and i love him but see my boy friend is the one im in love with and he trust me maybe that is all you need to do is keep trusting her if you are goin to marry her anytime soon you have to have plenty of trust
2006-10-16 11:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by psychobunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to her about it. And you shouldn't worry as long as you know that she loves you.
2006-10-16 11:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~hOtTiE~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋