Had 2 guys at once? What did you like/dislike about it? Were you in a relationship with one of them, and if so, how did the relationship turn out?
Serious answers only please, no haters or moralists please!
2006-10-16 10:14:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been with 2 guys at once..actually 3 but thats an answer to another question.
I was not in a relatioship at the time.
I don't think you should do this when you are in a releationship because it will only destroy it. why? because one of you will always wonder if the other person liked the 3rd person more. And if they will attempt to see them on the side. I have friends who were in relatioships (not the ones i did it with) that have tried this and every time it was the cause of their relatiohsip ending.. so.. try this with friends... strangers.. anyone but get it out of your system before you enter into a relationship!
2006-10-16 10:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did it once before. None of us were dating each other. It was just for fun. During a small moment I felt degraded because of the position I was in, but I didn't dwell on it and had a good time. We still stayed friends after that. I remember it fondly as a wild moment I had. It's nice to have a few wild moments before you become a mom and become as they think, the person that understands nothing about life.
2006-10-16 17:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Phoebe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would like to try it with my girl, but I know myself. I would probably get insanely jealous and hitting the other dude when it was over. That's why it's just a fantasy. It'll never happen with someone I care about. Tread lightly. If you and a buddy plan on sharing your woman, you WILL get jealous. Just leave it alone. Good Luck!
2006-10-16 17:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Twice in my life I participated with two men. I felt used both times and I was a busy girl. I was not in a relationship with anyone at the time.
2006-10-16 17:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I had two guys at once. I am married, and yes it happened while marriage, it was hubby, and a friend of ours. I didnt like the fact that hubby got upset about it. I mostly likely wouldnt do it again. He still brings it up, says it was cheating, when he had sex with another female in my bed!
2006-10-16 17:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with brothers, but wasn't expecting it. The one invited me to a hotel room to party ( I was young and stupid.) Well his brother came along, duh, what was I thinking. I finally figured out their master plan when the one I had been kissing on that night went to the bathroom and his brother sat down next to me and started making out with me. Then, since the door was closed and I was in there by myself, double duh!, I just went through the motions so as not to get hurt. I was afraid something bad would happen to me if I didn't perform, but I'm not really sad about doing it, but would never do it again. Or would I??!?
2006-10-16 17:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by cal gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes twice and the relationship was fine after it.
2006-10-17 12:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Emily S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had and never would. I would rather have another girl in my bed than two guys,I think I would get performance anxiety.
2006-10-16 17:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 guys at once.... c'mon there's no such thing.
2006-10-16 17:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋