say the girl is virgin and never exprience sex before. and many girls are little bit afraid or nervous from this 1st time night. as this is the 1st time they will share their body with someone.
what a husband can do to over calm his wife during the first night of honey moon? should he just skip sex at that night and just kiss her and hug her alot?
2006-10-16 07:00:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try a little foreplay to warm things up if she is too scared then maybe you should just kiss and play. ofcourse you will have blueb**ls
2006-10-16 07:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just touch her hand while talking to her. And just talk nicely and make her more comfortable. If she is comfortable enough, just ask her if she is ready and tell her not to get afraid and tell her that you will stop when she says so.
If she is nervous, then talk to her and tell her that all women have sex including her mother. And if she is still uncomfortable just hug her and skip sex.
If you give her time like a few days it will be better cause if it is an arranged marriage, then she will be nervous cause that is the first day she has known you and having sex would be uncomfortable. After a few days, she will be with you and then she will be ready for sex.
Have a happy married life
2006-10-16 07:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just take the night slowly, very slowly for her sake. If she starts to show signs that she is uncomfortable let her know that that is okay.
2006-10-16 07:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Funny question. Make her feel relaxed first and foremost.
2006-10-16 07:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
definitely not go slow and wear your heart on your sleeve so she knows she not he only one nervous trust is what its all about
2006-10-16 07:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just understand she is nervous........and see what makes her more relaxed.........talk to her to find that out as well.
2006-10-16 07:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by purefire41 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Slip her a date rape drug, and go to town.
Problem solved.
2006-10-16 07:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋