I had heard about it. Now I experience the same. I do it with my wife. I love her a lot. Make love and satisfy her and then turn away from her and sleep. She wants me to sleep facing her at least but I unconsciously turn away and sleep. She feels bad. But is it with others too. Do men do it intentionally or carelessly? or it happens unconsciously / subconsciously? Views of men and women invited.
2006-10-16 17:53:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my baby does the same thing but everytime he does that he takes my arm and put around him, he wants me to hug him then...its cute...he just likes to sleep on the other side....
2006-10-16 18:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I think that if you turn your back on the person you just made love to, there is no emotional feelings for them at all. I think the best part of making love is cuddling after wards. That is like,,,,,,,,,major to women. I don't think men really think about it that way, though. Its easy for them to just roll on over and have pleasant dreams while we stay up half the night wondering what we did wrong to make you not want to snuggle with us. I think , honestly, it's just a man thing. But, you really should hold your lady until she goes to sleep. Then turn around.
2006-10-17 01:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes my husband rolls away from me and goes right to sleep and sometimes he doesn't. I don't know if it's a subconscious thing, though I've always thought that it was because he's tired afterwards and just rolls to a position that's comfortable for him. At any rate, it's not a problem for me either way.
2006-10-17 01:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being off the rollercoastal ride and indeed it was a traumatic experience and that man sure do want to turn the tide the other way after a long ride. Oh by the way this is a natural occurrecnce and do happens to all men.
2006-10-17 01:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am the one to turn away...It freaks me out to sleep with someone right in my face. (except for my child...but the older she gets the more I find myself turning away) Anyway- my husband falls asleep immediatly if he is tired, seriously like 2 seconds after we decide we are going to sleep, he is snoring. He will even rub my back....while he is snoring. It's great to have your husband "programmed" lol.
2006-10-17 01:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Cortney & Nathan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a good meal, when all is said & done, it's up from the table. Don't take it to heart, some men just turn their backs like they tuck chairs in. Men like women, approach some things differently. Speak up, they aren't mind readers, & unless you try & explain it to them they may never know what's ailing you.
2006-10-17 01:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband does this but its because he normally sleeps on that side, its not because he is trying to be thoughtless, we have discussed it. I feel secure in our relationship and its all ok. My suggestion is to stay awake for a while after and talk and cuddle then go to sleep, it will make her feel more loved and cared about.
2006-10-17 00:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by reesie271 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes my husband will turn away, sometimes he'll just lay on his back, but I always am the one to turn away :) Doesn't bother us at all at that point. We're just ready to sleep.
2006-10-17 00:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by chnchita 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope, been married for 15 years and not even once have I given my wife the back, I love to hug her and keep her in my arms until the numbness wakes me.
2006-10-17 00:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're aware of it and aren't willing to roll your lazy butt over, you're just being selfish. What's the big hairy deal? You owe her at least that much.
2006-10-17 00:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋