2006-10-16 17:13:28 · 22 answers · asked by funkycat_us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it doesnt matter how old r u, but it matters how long u have been wth ur men and how much u love him if u know him and if u feel ready that u want to spend the rest of ur life with him, just with him and u sure that he feels the same about you...
2006-10-16 17:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person. I am 21 and getting married next year ( i was engaged when i was 20) I feel like I have had my time to go out and party with my friends, to get drunk and date different guys, now i have found 'the one' i never want anyone else so we are getting married. I also thought that i might have been too young to marry but age is just a number it means nothing. I know some 20 year olds who you would swear didn't act a day over 14 and others who seemed more like they were 30. If it feels right do it, and dont worry what anyone thinks!
So to answer your question, no i dont think 19 is too young to marry!
2006-10-17 01:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, 19 is much too young. You still have a lot of living, and life experiences to get under your belt. At 19 you've not yet even made it past the age of majority so legally you're not truly an adult (buying alcohol, renting cars, going to casinos, clubs etc), not that that's the end all and be all. I got married at 22 and thought I was hot sh*t, and that I knew what life was all about. Wrong. My hubby and I had so much growing up to do and we were still quite immature. I'd say be patient, and really live your life to the fullest before settling down so you don't regret a thing :)
2006-10-17 00:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by olliebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely do. Although I believe you can be in love at 19 (I was) and marry the person you were with at age 19 (I am), 19 is not mature enough or free of parental rule enough to get married.
At 19, you are still stuck in high school to an extent. It is that in-between stage between teenager and adult. You should not get married until you can safely make adult decisions without having to ask the advice of an older person. I work with a girl who was married at age 18, and she still has to call her mom to help her open a simple checking account!
I am only 20. I know I am not old enough to get married yet because I am still in the throes of becoming an adult. However, I am engaged, and will be getting married a few months after turning 22. Although I cannot 100% guarantee that I will be a perfect adult at that point, I will have to finish it pretty fast because I am moving halfway across the country.
Also, at age 19, NO ONE views you as an adult. Until you can drink, people will consider you too immature to do even simple adult things. If you get married, you will be the subject of gossip between your classmates and co-workers. Trust me.
2006-10-17 00:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U want honest ?? I have 3 sons, 2 of which married young... both are divorced, and it ended bad in both cases.... very bad in one.... I married at 18, I dont regret, but I do wonder at times what else I missed.... 19 is so young... and there is just so much to see and do and feel and experiance in/of life... *sigh*..... I truely believe that if ppl would wait till around 25 or older to marry, they would be more prepared for what it takes to make a marriage work...... it is NOT easy, no matter what age, but if you marry to young, you are only asking for trouble, in more than 1 way !!!! God bless
2006-10-17 00:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. 19 is too young. You're too young and jump into things... you never know who you may meet or who your significant other may meet. It may be best to do the whole promise ring scene... a promise ring is a little less then engagment.. equivelant to saying i heart you vs i love you.. this way you two are stil promising each other faithfullness and love to each other.. and wait a few years.. then pop the big question when you or the two of you have matured a little.. I'm 25 and i can tell i've matured even if it has only been 6 years.. trust me... just wait a few more years.. maybe 23 or 24.. there's no need to rush.. :) good luck
2006-10-17 00:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didnt think 19 was too young for me but I do agree that 19 is too young for some people. People mature at different levels. Some people are forced to grow up at a young age and deal with thing that 20 somethings or 30 somethings deal with. Really, its your life. If you think it will make you happy, go for it. I couldnt be happier.
2006-10-17 00:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a complex institution. I will just say that I was not ready to be married at 19 and I considerd myself more mature at that age than some of my peers.
2006-10-17 00:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by Bijou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 is young. You really need to experience life more
2006-10-17 01:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by jaded2809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes 19 is too young to get married you have alot of growing up to do. you need to live alttle and don't get tied down . if you get married at that age you will regret it in the long run.
2006-10-17 00:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, too young. I didn't start to know what I really wanted in life until the mid 20's and some friends it has taken even longer. Relax, you have the rest of your life.
2006-10-17 00:17:25 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋