I stummbled upon an email from my husbnds ex-friend at first i thought nothing of it because it was just a simple how are you type thing. well then i discovered that he has a myspace account that they chat on every night. should i confront him and find out what is going on or let it be?
2006-10-19 23:44:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
see we share everything. we know each others email passwords, thats how i stumbled across the email from her. the the other day i logged into his account because i was having trouble in mine and i seen he has opened a myspace acount..when i tried to log in it did'nt take the password that all his other emails and bank accounts had.
2006-10-19 23:52:39 · update #1
Men are wierd sometimes. I don't know enough about you and your husbands relationship to know if it is good or not. Nothing you have said makes it sound like he wants to leave you. A majority of men will cheat and have no intentions on leaving their wife. Men don't put sex and love in the same sentence like women do. It sounds like he might be trying to set up a booty call if he has not already succeeded. Men go back to what they know and are familiar with. If he has done that, it has absolutely nothing to do with you. A choice he made. If you choose to ask him about the account, do it in such a way that will not make him confrontational. If you are yelling and screaming at him, he will only say hurtful things that he really does not mean or he will just deny it.
2006-10-20 00:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like he is hiding stuff and that the email might have been harmless, but this my space account is not. I would confront him and find out what is going on. Something is up that he is open with everything else, but keeps this hidden. Good Luck!
2006-10-20 13:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is keeping secrets from you. Myspace is just the same as a dating site, if you ask me. I would not tolerate that in a relationship. Clearly, he doesn't want you to find out as he is using another password. To me, this is the first steps of infidelity,
2006-10-20 07:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would set up my own account for myspace. Then he would wonder what you doing in myspace. If you be on myspace chat to one of your girlfriend.. I would do right when he walk by then close the myspace. Then it make him wonder if you have a male friend on myspace. two can play that game.
2006-10-20 09:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by kimi21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would do nothing at this point. I recently communicated with an old boyfriend from school. I didn't think my husband would understand so I didn't tell him. Nothing ever came of it and I no longer communicate with him. Your husband will probably catch up on news with her, talk about old times and that will be the end of it. Give it time.
2006-10-20 07:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by princessmonalisa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not the place to have secrets.
If he is hiding things then he is doing it for a reason, it's up to you to find out what that reason may be.
If there was nothing to worry about then he would have offered this information to you without you having to stumble across it.
Trust your instincts - they are there for a reason.
2006-10-20 07:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Witchywoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd either confront him or maybe start talking about one of your exes to see if he fesses up. It could just be a curiousity thing. Wondering what the ex is doing and such. Kind of like going back to high school reunion.
2006-10-20 06:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
That is up to you but if he is hiding it and it seems he is then I would think there's something to it and if he hasn't already I believe he will cheat on you with his so called ex-friend. I wish you luck.
2006-10-20 06:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by James C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, first you would have to answer to how you stumbled onto these secret life that he has...but you could ask him...how shes doing....I mean at least tell him you know he talks to her...and you wouldn't care to much, but why the secret hiding...but you'll still have to come up with...How you know...
2006-10-20 06:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to ask the question, unless you don't really want to know the answer.
2006-10-20 06:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋