that nothing should be told to anyone and they must act happy and smiling when around relatives and friends-now this way nothing gets solved-what should be done about this situation?
2006-10-19 22:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
couples argue, that is a fact of relationships,
It is disrespectful to do it in front of other people!
2006-10-19 22:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad letting a man tell you what to do. Walking on egg shells is for the birds. It is time for you to take back your individuality amd independance. There must be someone in your family or a friend you could confide in. Get up the courage to talk with your husband. It sounds like he has no respect for you either. Are you allowed to have a friend or family member over when he isn't there? If that is the case, then it is time for you to take action. You do not need to stay in an abusive relationship either. You really do have options.
Good Luck,
O'hock
2006-10-20 05:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a lot of fighting between a couple, I would not be going to family parties and looking all happy. That's fake and wrong. Stop going to the parties first - that's not helping, if anything it makes it that much harder because it forces you to lie. Second, deal with the problems between you and your partner. Compromise if you can but if the guy is just a controlling freak, you may want to consider moving on from him. You deserve to love and be loved, be happy, get support and have companionship - this guy is not doing his part to make this happen.
2006-10-20 06:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants you to 'act' all happy he knows already you are not and others in the family wouldnt approve of what he is or isnt doing. dont keep this to yourself,you may have married him but that doesnt give him the right to tell you what to feel or even what look to plaster on your face where relatives are concerned. make him work at this relationship or you may just find yourself,lonely,miserable,and full of sadness that will come from you never being able to acknowledge your true feelings. stand up for yourself and if you feel bad,,say so,,,,,,,,he is one man who wants an easy life with all the benefits,,why should you provide him with one at your own expense
2006-10-20 05:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go jump in the deep end of the pool and go find ur self a man who will look after u and not control ur every day life, emotions and feelings!
2006-10-20 05:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cud try understanding his problem incase he cud be suffering from depression consult a therapist if she really wants to save her relatonship .ikno its kinda diff situation but life is not easy or try d easiest way is to walk out on him if he is not worth the effort.i wud say go to a therapist wud help both of u
2006-10-20 05:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by rittu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said marriage life was perfect .You will have your arguements ,in a marriage you both have to give and take situations.Its 50/50 agreement then the marriage will work.We all cant have a fairy tale marriage its not all possible.Get over it and start living and being a married couple.
2006-10-20 06:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by intelligentshyunique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
There is a saying
Oh God Forgive Those Who Do Not Know What They are Saying
Dr.Mojo
2006-10-20 05:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to get some counseling and learn to stand up to him. he sounds like a control freak. hopefully theres no abuse physical going on. he's not a man he's a bully
2006-10-20 05:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some back bone and take up for yourself. Men will only do to you what you allow them to.
2006-10-20 06:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by pat1268 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋