If you were trying to decide between two people you loved but could only pick one to be in a long term relationship with, what is the ONE question you would ask yourself? What is the one thing you would base this decision on? And It cannot be simply "who you love" or "who loves you more" because they both love you equally as much.
2006-10-19 21:18:34 · 19 answers · asked by Major Max Confusion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ps: feel free to look at my other questions, read about my situation and answer them I would appreciate it greatly
2006-10-19 22:22:28 · update #1
Seems like a quandry! Have you ever thought about a poly relationship?
2006-10-19 22:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby close your eyes and what ever face comes first you should look at that or which one you think about the most. If I hold out two roses for you which would be pink and white wouldn't you reach out for one. As well I think that you should do an intimate self search and see what's happening in there. If you don't know who you are then baby you ain't gonna know if you really love or as a matter of fact how. He would be the one that makes you think of a happy ending or he would be completing your very being and I know as well as you do that you can't possibly love both guys the same way. you have to have more affection for one more than the other.Don't bullshit yourself and pick the one to end your love story with. I know that there is the one who God created just for you...
2006-10-20 04:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in that situation before and based it on friendship. I know it sounds silly but The one i chose was my best friend, He listens to me, understands me, loves me more than anyone cause i dont have to be something im not when im with him, he doesnt judge me, and when i wake up in the morning and he is next to me i know in my heart i made the right choice. You have to have a foundation to build a relationship and the best place to start is a friendship, the feeling of being in love eventually fades away but a friendship if forever. My love is my best friend, I couldnt face this life without him by my side.
2006-10-20 04:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your situation before and I made the wrong choice. I decided to follow my heart. Love is a feeling that comes and goes. Sometimes it last and other times it just run its course. Try to look ahead and think outside of the box. What you like today you my not like tomorrow.
2006-10-20 05:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tweetyboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... If that is really the case... Take the better looking guy. I always say looks are nothing, but in this case you would obviously want to take the more appealing person to you. If they are equally appealing, then you should contradict against your own "dont says" because that is what you must do, time will ultimately tell...
2006-10-20 06:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by thaheartoflife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can not separate or be used as a choice, there fore the answer is moot. If you love one any different then the other, then it can not be real love, but of one made up, to fit your circumstances . This will make it seem guiltless in your own mind.
I AM
2006-10-20 04:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't decide, because I will know none of them are the right one for me. So my advice to you is to wait a bit longer. Mister Right is on his way and believe me, when he arrived, you will know instinctively that he's the ONE! There will be no doubt whatsoever in your heart.
2006-10-20 06:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its gotta be "Who makes you laugh the most?". If you can laugh alot with the person you are with it makes life so much easier. Situations don't seem so bad, problems are easier to share etc.
2006-10-20 09:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by rachel k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based it on their personality and charm and your heart feeling rating which one. That means the one that your heart beats the most for.
2006-10-20 04:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. one whom u can trust
2. one whom have mutual feelings as u do, with him - love and respect
3. one whom have same beliefs as you.
4. one who is a better provider. read, the skill, intelliegnce that will get him there.
2006-10-20 04:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋