Would you take him back or totally dump him?
2006-10-19 23:25:38 · 50 answers · asked by gabbyx19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know...that's a tough one. Hmmmmm....kick him out of the house. But what if the person has kids...I don't think I would take him back, just be friends and sorta close for the sake of the children. Does that make sense? Good Question I'll have to think about that for the future. ;-)
2006-10-19 23:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by ~p♥kes~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd totally dump him. It's one thing to make a mistake and regret it completely. Then you guys could work on getting past it. But if he did it again, then that begins to show a pattern. He will continue to cheat. So you might as well get out now. Just remember this (regarding anything in life, when someone does you wrong): "First time, shame on you. Second time, shame on me." If you need explanation, email me.
2006-10-19 23:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine sharing the same bed with him after cheating on me twice. I will totally dump him or throw myself off a tall building..
2006-10-21 05:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your question 4 mos ago was whether to date another female who had a boy friend.
Now are you gay and your cheating boyfriend is another women or do you also have boyfriend and you are cheating on him with another women?
I think gay relationship are rather casual only serious for 1 person and the other is playing some role the entire time. I guess your mate is playing the cheating BF.
I don't think others responding to your question are aware your talking about another women not a real male husband.
2006-10-19 23:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once cheated on...shame on you and him
Twice cheated on....shame on YOU
if you let this dude cheat on you a 3rd time
I would say you're awfully dumb or stupid!
Cheaters are just that...once a cheater always a cheater...
These shallow minded people get things out of life by lying and cheating their way into peoples lives and have no regard to the person that they're deceiving.
Dump this dude off at the nearest trash refuse pickup place and leave his (_I_) at the dumper!
2006-10-19 23:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater - always a cheater. PERIOD! My ex husband couldn't keep it in his pants and cheated constantly. He'd swear he never cheated. I dumped him because he was abusive as well and discovered he had been cheating all along. He remarried and guess what? He cheated on her too! Now they are separated and he is with someone else! Will he cheat on her? What do you think? Now I am with someone who wouldn't cheat on me if there was a naked woman in front of him......and that's the way it should be.
2006-10-20 00:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I had a man who cheated on me more than once and I really loved him. We talked about it and he prmised up and down he wouldn't do it again and ofcourse I took him back and guess what? Yeah, he continued. Well, I just turned the tables. I could have/should have/eventually did but much later on left him. But while I was still with him I cheated on him. It was actually fun. No guilt, no worries. Oh when he found out he was livid but I said what goes around comes around. So if you want to get him back have some fun of your own.
2006-10-19 23:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump...sorry
2006-10-19 23:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he has betrayed your trust,and disrespected you and this is something your never going to get past no matter how you try. sometimes it is best to move on after the first time your cheated on to save face and let the other person know you have boundaries. i once took back a cheater, really thought he came back because he loved me, thought he really didn't love the other girl, but in reality he came back because she had cheated on him and i was the safest bet. i really believed he loved me more but one night we were driving past a bar this woman was in, he saw her car, his response told the whole story, his response was"my poor tired heart" so than i knew he loved her and he had not come back because he missed me so terribbly, he returned because she had broken his heart. after a few months of bliss, and feeling on top of the world, he cheated on me again and the second time around it was much harder to end it, much more emotional, that's when i decided if i ever got cheated on again in a relationship i would move on the first time it happened to avoid getting hurt a second time, i believe a cheater will always cheat, whe he doesn't get his way,or when there are issues to work out.
2006-10-20 01:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man would EVER cheat on me twice because I would have left him after the first time.
2006-10-20 00:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋