2006-10-19 22:12:04 · 24 answers · asked by stevi c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'v been married twice and now I am engaged to the most wonderfull man on earth. I truely believe he is my soul mate and I hope we are as much in love in 14 years as we are today.
2006-10-20 08:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by kimber_j1968 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one of many that see that love can grow more than you can dream it would. Not only does your love grow but you become even better friends. You have 14 years so far and you are just at the beginning. It gets better and better. Love your partner and never stop. Communicate and confide everything with each other. Welcome to the understanding of what life is really all about.
2006-10-20 00:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a relationship now with more than 3 years and it scares me a lot if after 5, 10 or 20 years there will be no love at all.. because sometimes when you compare those things happening when you are starting in a relationship, it is really different from now.. but you know what, everytime i will feel that, i just think how we've been developed.. and it helps.. so were going to live hapily ever after..
2006-10-19 22:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by joboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think marriage is like the Alicia Keys song, " I KEEP FALLING IN AND OUT OF LOVE WITH YOU".
Marriage in itself has many stages----the first couple of years it's the get to know you stage--- (you might've dated and even lived together but----you just are getting comfortable and getting to know each other.
When the marriage hits year #7----the 7 year itch hits...some couples fight about $$$ and what the different priorities are....It's the stepping stone to the next phase in the marriage.
After year 10----you're in a comfort zone...old habits, old comfy pair of sneakers....type of relationship..
Then you have the years in between of the roller coaster rides...children being born----the buying of a new car, or house....new employment---loss of employment----bills that can or can not be paid....
MID LIFE crisisis happen too....AFFAIRS sometimes...It all goes with the institute we call MARRIAGE...
LOVE IT OR LEAVE IT!
2006-10-19 23:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After thirteen years I fall more in love with my husband. Worked in bars 25 years and know how weak most men are, never thought there was aman I could trust. Took me 4 years but I am blessed to have the man I have. You and I are a rarity. I am so happy for you!
2006-10-19 22:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by gigi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my man for eight years 3 years living together 5 years married. I have to say I love him more and more each year. I am not saying that we have no ups and downs and there are times I would love to kick him to the curb lol but all in all I love him more each passing day.
2006-10-20 05:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been married for 14 years but I can say that the more time we have together the deeper in love I become.
2006-10-20 04:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by On the upside 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I still love my husband of more than 36 years and it is a bigger love than when it was new. Congrats on finding that right person and many more years of happiness together.
2006-10-19 22:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people never get that far...they forget what is improtant. After you've been through the think and thin...and learning each other needs ,wants desires, and thoughts, you can get through pretty much anything. It is great that you could feel that after so long, you have one special marriage....
2006-10-20 00:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bless you guys!! my parents split up so its good to see that love doesnt have a sell by date,
this has been a worry of mine that i will follow my fathers footsteps, but im very differant to him in some ways.
i am proposing to my girlfriend in Egypt in about 3 weeks time, and i hope our relationship is as good as all yours!!
2006-10-19 22:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Gravy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋