We had an intercaste love marriage, with oppositon from our parents. There was an age difference of 15 years and also wife was from very rich family with an history of divorces and desertions. But she convinced the husband that she hates divorce and will never resort to one. After a very cute son is born the opposition from wife's father is over who eyed him as a son he wanted (his own son is no good) and abetted her to divorce her husband who was going through a bad time and in return reinstated her in his will of multi million estate. At present the wife's husband is also cotesting divorce from his second ( or third wife ) from last 15 years .
2006-10-19 19:38:57 · 10 answers · asked by Nachiket D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The husband is screwed here. Any woman worth her salt should not go back to her parents after marriage - under any dire circumstances.
The only option is to wrangle in court and appeal forever. Hopefully the father-in-law passes away by the time the court comes to a ruling.
2006-10-19 19:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by justinageneralway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you the wife or the husband?Both of u have been playing around with the institution of marriage .You guys really have lot of time to go to the court and fight out.If both of you are twice married and goin to courts again..there is some serious problem in u.Spare the child for gods sake.First u guys have to decide what you really wnat in ur relationship...ur foundation of relationship looks weak.How can ur FIL get in between u ?Take ur wife and run to a secluded place.Dont let any family members get in between u ,that requires ur parents also.Just three of u wambooz to some place....money anyway is not a problem for u guys.Then rediscover your relationship.Work on ur relationship as i think u guys must be over the hill by now with so many divorces.Just concentrate on your child and start fresh.Dont visit your country till the time you two are really bonded to each other.And stop the blame game on each other.I assure you the problems between you two will get solved.The more u run away from the problem got married to each other after facing so many failed marriages and u definetly must be wanting to save it any cost.Save the marriage for the childs sake.In india as per Hindu marriage act child after 7 yrs can decide with whom he wants to stay.Any way i would not suggest that u get the child to the court.Get to meet ur wife and talk to her and just go somewhere where nobody gets in between u.
2006-10-19 20:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he or you have been married 2 or 3 times, then maybe you or he need to look at themselves as to why the wives agree to leave. If a wife is happy she will not leave her husband. I hope all works out.
2006-10-19 19:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first please refresh your self from the option
"and also wife was from very rich family with an history of divorces and desertions'
Be clear to go in or reject the relation ship and be advised suitably
from the angle of a serene body mind and soul
think of the kid/child 's future
let him not suffer for your [both] mistakes
2006-10-19 23:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very complicated matter . but divorce is not a good solution for son . try to solve the problem between two .dont accept 3rd person's interference . may be u will get solution .
2006-10-20 01:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by kajol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The situation is complex and messy. I would not get involved. They've got $'s, so they can get any kind of help they want. There is no winner here. It is very sad for the child.
2006-10-19 19:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly your life is in mesh. I don't believe in divorce, but i too have to think twice.
If possible, take her to psychologist to maintain your life peacefully.
2006-10-19 20:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prenup.
2006-10-19 19:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your story would make a very good soap opera.
2006-10-19 23:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it buddy.
2006-10-19 21:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋