okay so my ex is still begging for another chance after i left him over an affair with a coworker, i had caught him in several lies till i found out about a nite in a motel they had sex in.....long story....anyways, he is still begging for another chance....why cant he move on...i feel like someone is still a part of his life and he just wants to keep me around....if i say no...he begs....then he gets angry and then he says he gonna kill himself....etc.....he swears i am seeing someone and thats why i wont take him back....once i got mad and had enough and said i can see someone now if i want cause we are not together and he smashed my door in....called his brother and told him "that ***** is seeing someone else....you whore...you slut..." then he cried and apologized.....HELP...i wish i could get proof that he is still with her then i could throw it in his face and maybe he would leave me alone.....
2006-10-19 19:38:30 · 16 answers · asked by hamhead 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because he is manipulating you. He wants his cake and he wants to be able to eat it too. The way he is acting is cause for concern. He is not acting like a normal person. This sounds like a very unstable person. His abuse is not acceptable. You need to break away from him for good and go on with your life. This guy needs to get help right away. Get a restraining order and move in with family or a friend to keep safe. Don't let him make you feel sorry for him. He will do anything to be able to control you. He will not stop cheating. The thing that worries me is that he might start physically abusing you. Find a man who is well balanced next time. Move on. Get counseling so that you will be able to identify the warning signs of an abusive partner. Stay safe!
2006-10-19 19:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I didn't read much of that to be honest (it was really long), but the title seemed enough for me to say not all of us Christians blame Islam for the actions of people. Isn't it a bit crazy to think we're all the same just because we are Christians/Atheists. I blame people for their actions. Why should their religion have anything to do with it? I will blame someone for the decisions they make, regardless of much else. I don't even understand why people think Christians and Muslims have to be against each other. If you worship God, or even if you don't, I will still call you a brother or sister.
2016-05-22 04:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really didn't leave him. You still interact with him. You still talk and argue and be around him. You still listen to him. Maybe part of you wants him to beg for you. Get out while you can. You are still seeking attention from him. Make a new life for yourself and don't even think about communicating, looking, inquiring, or mingling with his friends. Don't engage in a conversation with him or his family. Don't care about him. Let the dead bury the dead so to speak. You better care about you and quick...
2006-10-19 20:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's getting violent. Call the police next time he comes to your house or office. He probably does just want you around for no true reason. Even if that's not the case, it doesn't matter, he cheated. What you do and who you're with is no longer his business. You need to call in a backup for protection.
2006-10-19 19:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by Curly Q Diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very unstable and possibly dangerous. I suggest you read the security expert Gavin deBecker's book entitled
"The Gift of Fear". He cites scenarios demonstrating how to handle out of control situations. It is in paperback now and a bookstore can order it for you. I think all women can benefit from reading this book.
2006-10-19 20:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get support form your friends and family and stay away from him take care of yourself because ex boyfriends like that can be very dangerous and he can really try to hurt you.
if he can't see all the pain he has caused you and doesn't feel shame to walk away then he is just the worst kind of man and you shouldn't stick around him.
if he breaks your door call the police on him maybe if you get a restraining order he will back away.
this is definitely more dangerous then it seems and you should really be careful please take care of yourself and seek your friends and family for support and protection... good luck!
2006-10-19 19:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow....i think u shld make a police report (if he starts harassing u) i mean its not tt it doesnt sound possible coz ur story sounds like ur ex is a very emotional person....(no offence)
well i think mayb if u cld shift from the plc u are stayin chg ur no.i think its shldnt be a prblm....just make it clear too him tt he betrayed u in the 1st plc and u r not going to take a 2nd chance to let him hurt u again....
i mean once is more than enuff....than tell him tt u have no more feelings for him tell him to get on with his life....wat will he do if u ahve another person in ur life ? i mean tt not up to him to decide and he cant really do any thing if u really had another bf.....u have oledi broken up with him.....tell him to get a life...
take k...gd luck!!!
2006-10-19 19:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when a guy accuses the girl of messing with someone else he's really the one that's seeing someone. to be honest I've been through it. He probably is still seeing her or someone else and is afraid that you will or are doing the same and he can't accept seeing you or hearing that you are not his anymore
2006-10-19 19:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by lynelleleibhart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you don't need proof of anything. His past behavior and his seriously dysfunctional personality are reason enough. Just tell him that you don't ever want to see him again and if he bothers you, get a restraining order.
2006-10-19 19:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Writer of Truth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this is difficult, but please never take him back. His behaviour is immature and sounds violent and disrespectful towards you. Ignore him and cut all ties with him. If he's not around you, you don't have to answer anything to him.
You are worth far more than this and I know that you will meet someone who loves only you and respects you for who you are.
2006-10-19 19:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by Issabella 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋