2006-10-18 21:53:46 · 4 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd stay.
I consider marriage a long-term contract, not a deal you stay with as long as the sparks last.
Hint: they don't last all that long.
Love does last long after the sparks are gone, though, and that's what it's all about.
2006-10-18 22:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is not a feeling, it's a decision to stay with that person no matter what. what your describing is lust, and that feeling one gets when their relationship is new. when this thing called lust, begins to wane after about a year into a relationship you than go on to a different kind of relationship built on trust, and mature love.get some therapy before you leave your spouse.
2006-10-19 05:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stay if I felt there was no way to get those feelings back. Everyone deserves to be in a healthy relationship, and one with no passion is not good for the soul.
2006-10-19 04:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one who stops trying deserves everything they get. A full and active sex life loads of O A BDSM Outdoor stuff friends and group strangers toy anything that spices it up.........when they stop trying LEAVE thousands await you
2006-10-19 04:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋