its killing me becuz im madly in love with him ive tried talking to him and tried picking certain days it will just b just me and him but it doesnt work i love him so much and i miss him every minute his away im so in love with him i want his time and company so much and no one elses im no one with out him im miserable without him i cant eat sleep or fucntion without him and its killing me every second hes away from me i dont know what to do ive tried everything i love and care about him so much i am madly in love with this man and its eating away my heart how he can just go and spend all his time with his friends and ignore me when im at home with him he was never like this at first its like hes a different man now but i know deep down inside he loves me and cares i dont know what to do i cant leave him he is my world my all my life my heart my soul my rib my everything
2006-10-18 20:55:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
honey please your making yourself to available to this man...by reading this you make yourself sound needy and desperate. If this man had any respect for you and by reading what you wrote he doenst have any for you at all. sounds like he is falling out of love with you. Men dont like (in fact they hate) women that are clingy and needy. Men want women that are independent and self sufficient. If you both live together that is your first problem....I think you need to be true to yourself and your heart. he is not the one for you...sounds like your the only one in love here not him with you.
2006-10-19 01:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound way too dependant on this guy - you need to realise you have a a life aside from him. Partnerships/relationships are not to joining of one person - they are two people in their own space, sharing their lives with each other. You need to have your own space, your own independance and individuality. It sounds as though he may be spending time away from you on purpose because he feels you are too clingy. Try and rein in some of those feelings, keep them for when you ARE together and try not to smother him! Be happy with yourself and love yourself before you share that with someone else.
2006-10-19 04:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by mmasseychase 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound very needy and clingy; almost irritating...he seemingly needs time away from you...just reading your post made me want to call some buddies up and get the hell out of the house.
2006-10-19 04:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by eddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you're saying you love your guy so much then you can do anything for him. You can try this step ----> hope it's work for you.
Since your guy hang with his friends till 3am... BE WITH HIM TILL 3AM
Since your guy likes with his friends..... YOUR GUY FRIENDS ARE YOUR FRIENDS TOO ----> you must ACCEPT that.
if your guy love you.... he's will NOTICED YOU.
2006-10-19 04:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋