im in a new country with different culture. im in high school and im in year 12. the guy i like has broken my heart, i miss my family and all my friends ,im homesick all the time, i cant get used to the new environment eventho it has been 8 months, plus im hurt and disppointed and find it hard to trust anyone again, i know i should be concentrating on my study cuz im in year 12 and i have hsc next year. but im just stressed and depressed..will it ever be ok again?
2006-10-18 20:56:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course it will, give it time. I'm sure there's other things you can do to keep yourself busy and keep your mind off that jerk. Eight months really isn't that long, so try to be patient and get your goals achieved!!
2006-10-18 20:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
what don't kill you will make you stronger, we all have experienced broken hearts, we all have loved someone who didn't return our love, we all had dreams and expectations that didn't work out, this will not be your last love in your life, concentrate on your studies and not the boy's so much. all will fall into place with you,pain never leaves us where it finds us, just be a little bit more selective on who you give your love to the next time, guard your heart, but don't close it up completely. good luck my friend hope all goes well for you, there will be another guy out there for you and than you will look back on this and laugh at how you could have been so hurt. your just a sensitive girl, and you expect when you love someone for it to be returned but it's not always like that.
2006-10-19 05:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure wish i had it all to do again. to be young with your problems would be a joy.. not to fear, things go get much better; well, at least til you have kids that act, do, and say the same things you do. at that point your only looking for them to grow up and move out so you can start your childhood all over again. relax -- the person your involved with today is by far not the same type of person you will want to be involved with 10 years from now. by the time I was 18 i had been in over 8 different countrys, and no friends, all the girls spoke no english and i was up to my eye balls in rice patties with bullet holes in me.. you have no idea how good you really have it right now.. enjoy it.. relax, it will all come together.
2006-10-19 04:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are so young please trust me when I tell you this. Everything you are going through now will make you stronger and better.You say your heart is broken well this is one of many to come. You'll look back on this one and say that was nothing compared to this heart brake I'm going through now. It's hard because your lonely and home sick but try real hard to make the best of your situation Years from now when it's to late you will wonder why you let yourself get so down when instead you could of had so much fun.
2006-10-19 04:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home, we have enough pathetic whining teens here already. Let your family marry you off to a toothless herdsman and make you work 20 hours a day in a sweat shop after bearing 11 kids. Then see how unhappy you were
2006-10-19 04:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make new friends without getting romantically involved. Give yourself time, and forgive the situation so the bad feelings go away sooner than if you dwell on them. Make a commitment to start fresh, and find reliable friends who will help you stick to that goal. Focus on things that you enjoy doing -- treat yourself to something fun or different, not just the responsibilities from outside but things that make you feel happy inside. Go spoil yourself.
2006-10-19 04:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by emilynghiem 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yes it will end you must be doing really good or wouldn't be over there ,, keep up the good work,,, as far as you being dis pressed... talk with a counselor over there n see if they can help you some until you get to go back home,or see what the family your living with can do for you.,,only there until you finish that year,,,,,,la ready been 8 months cant be much longer,,, good luck,,,try them ..plus want say I'm proud of you doing so well
2006-10-19 04:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by yellowstar61 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, life is hard. Stop the negative thinking. Do something positive. Go out and do something new. Meet new people. Enroll yourself in a class, or start a new hobby. Trust me, your stuck in your own little negative world. It happens to ALL of us. Think on and do something positive for someone else and you will feel great.
2006-10-19 04:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by jamie2341 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope this helps, but l believe it will
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-19 04:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Pray
2006-10-19 04:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋