Would you start an affair with a married man while:
- his wife is dying in hospital from terminal illness;
- he has 12 1/2 year old daugher;
- he was your student in language clases;
- he is paying your rent, send you on all expenses paid overseas trip; pays for his designer clothes; dentist etc., etc
- same time he refuses to provide for his wife;
- he was with his wife for 17 years.
Please tell me would you do it? If you were the husband? If you were the mistress? If you were the wife - what would you do?
2006-10-18 21:42:37 · 11 answers · asked by Angel Girl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It happen to me. I was dying diagnosed with MND. On the verge of being admitted to a Hospice. By the Grace of God I was miracolously healed. I wanted to know if more people are able to perform similar act.
2006-10-18 21:49:32 · update #1
I'm the wife. I intersepted emails, hotel receipts, airline tickets. I confronted him & he admitted. He is very proud as the mistress is Brazilian. He feels like a hero - very proud.
2006-10-18 23:12:01 · update #2
i wouldnt do it......the married man should be ashamed of himself...the mistress if she knew of the situation is a low life...
2006-10-18 21:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a loving, devoted husband, I could not put my wife through the pain of finding out about the affair... And she would find out. The pain is too much for her and it would actually be too much for me to even bear.
When I said "I do", I made a commitment to honour our relationship. There is no honour in having an affair.
2006-10-22 14:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY,
no real man would leave there wife dying alone, I know I wouldn't leave anyone-especially my partner to die on her own, If I was this man's wife and if I knew what you were asking him to do I'd come from beyond the grave and kick both your arses.....simple enough for you??? I hope your both ashamed of yourselves, I feel sorry for the man's wife and you shouldn't be alive if you want to do that with him....
Mitch and Laura
2006-10-18 21:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way I might find myself in that situation would be if I was completely unaware of it due to the man's lies. Even then I'd drop him so fast his head would spin, and probably do something really nasty to him on the way out. Then I would feel so bad that I was in this situation (even though I didn't know it) that I would try hard to make it up somehow.
2006-10-18 21:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your hopefully ex husband is a total loser. The mistress may never have known about you or the kid. Good luck
2006-10-18 22:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he and his wife had agreed that in her last hours maybe ! but it dont sound like it to me ,and him not caring for her is a chickens way out i wouldnt have any thing to do with the jerk, if he can do it to her what makes you so special that he woudnt do it to you
2006-10-18 21:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by purplehartamerica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I wouldn't - why do you even have to ask? Only the people with no moral conscience would say yes.
2006-10-18 21:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know for sure this is what happened?
Are you still with him? If not, who broke it off? Is he with her, now?
Did you take him to the cleaners? Do you want a good man? ;)
2006-10-18 22:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sick and I wouldn't have betrayed my wife to begin with.
2006-10-18 21:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't do it in any case!
2006-10-18 21:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Luv Thy Neighbour! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋