Marriage & Divorce - 14 October 2006

2006-10-14 12:01:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Curious, as we all have different ideas. Is anything beyond the pale?

2006-10-14 11:58:07 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Behavin 5

My separated "boyfriend" and I had a long talk. He said a lot of honest things including that he thinks he can work things out with his wife.

He says he cares about me and feels as though I have made him my life and he's throwing it in my face. He feels responsible for me and doesn't want to leave me with nothing. He wants to know that I have a plan to get on my feet and is willing to give me a place to stay.

I told him that I love him so much that I would give him up for his family. I told him that I don't want his life to be ruined any more and that I don't want to mess up any chance he has with his family. Then I gave back the keys to his apartment.

When we were leaving, he told me to think about everything and he would call tonight. I told him that nothing will change and we have nothing to talk about. Then I told him I love him again.

Why didn't he just accept the decision and go with it? Why tell me to think more and offer to call?

2006-10-14 11:57:00 · 9 answers · asked by torn 3

For instance how you thought he may feel about the relationship is not the way he feels your feelings are more serious than his he starts to care more when you start to act like it doesn't hurt but really it does because he doesn't pay attention to you until he wants to what do i do?

2006-10-14 11:55:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

As a woman, I prefer the lighs being off because of my figure, I am very uncomfortable. My mate prefer with them on, but as I stated earlier it makes me feel uncomfortable, very uncomfortable.

2006-10-14 11:48:46 · 31 answers · asked by asia391 2

2006-10-14 11:39:48 · 17 answers · asked by MOM 2

i am 17 yrs younger than my husband,i am sexy,and beautiful,a great mother and housewife.my husband is working 12 hrs a day and is always gone.i am so jealous and possesive of him,don't trust him at all,NONE no trust.i feel so insecure that he will cheat.he keeps telling me thaat hes not leaving his family for no other woman regardless how preet she is.but i can't find myself to get over being jealous.where he works have alot of woman coming in and out,and sometimes i feel so afraid that he might want to get involved with someone one day.i don't want to be arguing all the time becuz i'm jealous,and hes knows this,and sometimes he makes me feel hes doing it purposly.Can u plz help me stop being so insecure about my self?and my husband.cuz hes not trying to make it any easier.

2006-10-14 11:26:41 · 14 answers · asked by lovegirl 2

Once a woman applies in welfare for help and puts her baby's father on child support, what is the next step for child support. I need details in what happens in the court and what questions are asked. I put my baby's father on child support and I am completely new to this. Can someone please give me some information.

2006-10-14 11:17:38 · 11 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 1

2006-10-14 10:55:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

How often do you shave down there? I am just wondering how many women let themselves go.
Oh and for the record, since I am asking such a personal question, I do.

2006-10-14 10:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have a great career, starting salary is over 200k with a descent job at Wall Street, do you really care about your pretty girlfriend's education career and salary? If yes, how much you expect she should make to match you?

2006-10-14 10:55:18 · 3 answers · asked by Lla 1

Alright all you internet cruiser you got on yahoo quetions you download music you got your myspace but do you chat on the phone date lines if you can type it can you say it over the phone ya'll let me know

2006-10-14 10:53:19 · 3 answers · asked by Jman 1

2006-10-14 10:48:46 · 0 answers · asked by Anonymous

in the state of SC to get a divorce finalized?? It has been 60 days since my lawyer sent off papers to courts. They say minimum takes 3 mnths and can take up to 6 mnths. Have been seperated for nearly 2 yrs!!!! I want to move on with my life!! Is there anything I can do that the lawyer is not telling me?????

2006-10-14 10:42:16 · 4 answers · asked by kimandkaitlyn2005 4

Serious question yal you meet a girl go on your first date over dinner she tells you she could be HIV positive she has been tested but the results arent back and even if the test says no she two more two take over a year period.You know if you have sex one time and that condom breaks you might be screwed.But atleast she had enough guts to be open with you and not let you find out the hard way she is a good girl who messed aroun with a bad dude who never told her she had to find out from some other person then he later on told her.She told you her biggest fear is being alone because she thinks know one will want to be with her if she is.On the other hand you got a baby you want to see grow.Ya'll help on this one please seriouse people only

2006-10-14 10:32:59 · 31 answers · asked by Jman 1

what does the wedding ring symbolize? Where did it come from? Why wear one? Would like to hear from both side's please.

2006-10-14 10:23:41 · 14 answers · asked by kotysgrlxxx 1

She cheated when her first love of 27 yrs ago came a calling (they were 14 & 15) Never saw it coming how do you get over the anger and jealousy. We had reversed roles I've been the homemaker Taking odd jobs to help make the ends meet while I took care of 15 yr old son. How do I move on?

2006-10-14 10:18:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do everything and he leaves a mess wherever he goes in the house.

2006-10-14 10:03:05 · 19 answers · asked by carobygirl 6

How do you communicate with your partner (this can also be non verbal)? What is your communication style, and is it effective? How do you improve, and how do you know you are improving?

2006-10-14 10:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by Badman 1

2006-10-14 09:57:00 · 11 answers · asked by Darren W 1

She looks like a horse and I've spent a lifetime trying to keep the trollop from marrying him, but now its done, whenever she comes over for tea, I just want to smash the china over her head.... but I just put on my best cold smile..... how can I make this more bearable for me?

2006-10-14 09:55:19 · 47 answers · asked by Hobnobs 3

living together for 10 years and she decided to go back to her country with my 2 kids. what shall i do? I notice she is in love with somebody else in her country since her last vacation a year ago.

2006-10-14 09:46:58 · 10 answers · asked by saulito 1

posted a question two days ago about fighting with my man, he walked out tried to call him after an hour he wouldnt answer, stayed out till the pubs closed.
Well he came back with his tail between his legs NO apoligies though! he did want to be 'close' which i recipracated,HOWEVER the next day it was 'my fault' he had gone out in the first place and spent 50 quid!!! WHAT AM I MISSING???

2006-10-14 09:45:51 · 14 answers · asked by julie knows 2

I am not a Christian.

2006-10-14 09:37:04 · 28 answers · asked by shlomogon 4

2006-10-14 09:36:12 · 23 answers · asked by Nazurha B 1

I used to want sex every day but my husband didn't. Now he does and I don't. Help.

2006-10-14 09:33:56 · 9 answers · asked by yellowgrl 2

I've recently realized that the reasons why my relationship with my in-laws could be better is because I am not what they would like me to be. I'm speaking specifically of the females like Mother in law and Sister in law. If I am not catty, gossipy, have good manners, refuse to put down others, and try to generally talk about things of substance then I won't fit in. Surely I can just be me and one day they will realize that right? No other problems, husband is great, we are happy and don't have to see the trouble-makers very much.

2006-10-14 09:30:24 · 7 answers · asked by r_k_winters 2

i just got married,,i am a indian so according to our mythology bride & groom cannot meet before marriage thats why we both didnt know much about each other..so every time i ask her something about her ..she refuses...plz any married experienced person tell me what should i do to tell her my feelings & know her feeling about me....plz answer..

2006-10-14 09:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I chose to say folks, because not all women feel this and some men do. For those that do, why do some get the feeling that they MUST get married?
I personally feel this, but I'm battling with why I even feel this way. My current relationship is like a marriage. We have known each other for 5yrs, been a couple and living with one another for 4yrs. It is an equal partnership and he is my best friend. I can't complain, yet I have this nagging feeling that I must get a ring. It has gotten to the point where I mentally made a note that if I don't get one within the next 4 years, I will move on. But why should I care?! If the relationship is so good, why do I want to ruin it by letting this nagging feeling for marriage get in the way?
So tell me why do some folks get this feeling? I know plenty of folks who get this marriage fever....but why?
I have some possible reasons as to why, but nothing that really makes sense as to why it hits a bunch of folks. What do you think?

2006-10-14 09:09:31 · 18 answers · asked by angedeaile 2

2006-10-14 09:05:59 · 28 answers · asked by Gayla H 1