She looks like a horse and I've spent a lifetime trying to keep the trollop from marrying him, but now its done, whenever she comes over for tea, I just want to smash the china over her head.... but I just put on my best cold smile..... how can I make this more bearable for me?
2006-10-14 09:55:19 · 47 answers · asked by Hobnobs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
have her beheaded, then mount the ugly fcukers head above the fireplace.
ps do you think the americans actually believe you are the queen lol
2006-10-14 09:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
my husband had the same problem only it was his parents that didn't like me, they said i was no good and just using him and where always trying to split us up.
now we live in lovely home together and have been married three years spent the past six moths saving to go on a cruise for Christmas (not bragging but my job paid for most and his parents would say i was using him for money hmmm) and planning on starting a family next year.
and as for his parents well the last time we spoke to them was the day after our wedding.
so if you would like to keep your son then i suggest you let him make his own mistakes in life as the more you try to push him away from her the more he will want her.
if they are not suited then they will work it out.
i hope you see sense soon!
2006-10-14 10:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by mwashington_22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find this rather amusing because my mum hated my brothers wife when they first started dating and during a family meal at a very nice restaurant in town, she whacked a huge chocolate gateaux in her face! Hilarious, she still can't stand her and too thinks she looks like a horse.. must be a mother in law/daughter in law thing.....but I think she bares her now because she is married to my brother and I think this is probably what you will have to do now! I am very fortunate cos my parents LOVE my husband! Who wouldn't he is just THE BEST!
2006-10-14 11:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bearable for you? How about Her? Its should not matter what she looks like. Who are you to choose who your son marries? Perhaps your mother in law felt the same about you. Do you seriously think your dil is not aware of how you feel? . You will eventually drive a wedge between your son and yourself. live your life and let him and her live theirs.
2006-10-14 10:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about making it more bearable for your son!! its his life his choices good or bad. She looks like a horse (in your opinion!!!) your son might think she looks like an angel.
Keep going the way your going with your Bad Vibes (don't think your daughter in law is oblivious to your feelings) and you are only going to make stuff a whole lot worse.
LOVE A LITTLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 10:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by julie knows 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have her be-headed. THEN MOUNT THE HORSE HEAD ON YOUR WALL. Let that be a lesson to your son. Then next time your son brings home a mate, if you do like her, act as if you do not. If she seems like a bad choise, drown her in gifts and invite her to shop with you, eat with you, buy her little trinkets and hint how much you would love for her to marry your son even if he likes to to it Greek. Admit to her that you taught him.
2006-10-14 10:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Valerie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1: You have NO control over anyone except yourself.
Number2: It sounds like she is trying to get you to like her if she comes over for tea. Come on be nice, it sounds like she is amiable
Number 3 It sounds like NO ONE your son loved, you would automatically hate.
It sure sounds like you have some control issues
and a bit TOO CLOSE, to your son. Get some help because in the end it is is you who ends up being angry and hateful. Newsflash: You son is an adult!
2006-10-14 10:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by Matt M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my husbands grandmom is 72 and she is such a gossiper and trouble maker , now we r not talking about a sweet older lady, this women has caused trouble in all family members lives. she constantly puts me down and all i do is take care of my hubby, he is spoiled. but she feels like she has to start trouble for us and everyone else in the family, i get through it by not seeing her at all, i use to try and deal with her over and over but now we've given up. i just steer clear of her, and keep my children away from her mean ways. ive tried to get my hubby to go see her but shes done him so bad in the past that he just cant take being around her.
2006-10-14 18:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by nicky l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't. However, if you weren't so selfish and concerned for your own feelings, you might realise that he is married her, and you are not.
If he wants to be with her you should respect that and be happy for him. It's not about how you feel. He's your son and you should be over joyed that he has found someone he loves enough to marry.
2006-10-14 10:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by letem haveit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your soon about limiting her coming for tea. Thankfully I get along with my in laws better then my husband does. But my first husbands mother was very cruel to me for no reason (ponders why we aren't together anymore his mother) If it is just because of how she looks talk to her she cant change the way she looks. But if it could also be her attitude then please be respect and talk to her. She may be wondering what she did to make you dislike her so much.
2006-10-14 10:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by milliondollarbabe25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you remind me of my mother in law.you guys just don't know when to let go.your're probably jealous that ur son don't give u the attention u want.i'm a daughter in law,and the mother in laws r mostly the problems.leave ur son alone,if u love him u should leave him to live is life.And if u had a daughter u wouldn't want that for her.i'm sure you had a mother in law?put urself in her shoes.And i'm sure she don't even like u either.get a life you old witch....
2006-10-14 10:20:20 · answer #11 · answered by lovegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋