Marriage & Divorce - 14 October 2006

oftenley he wants me in bed

2006-10-14 14:32:02 · 23 answers · asked by Patuma K 1

My wife & I filed for a divorce 2 months ago.Reason being she wasn't able to enjoy life as she used to be after I was retrenched mid last year.Constantly comparing how lucky all her g/f were (going shopping/holidays).She also venged her fustration on my daughter whenever she's in a bad mood.Despite efforts to salvage the marriage,she failed to understand my dilema. Eventually she demanded for a divorce.Knowng I can't provide her the life she wanted like before, I hv no choice but to comply.
However, she called last week trying to hint for a reconcilation.I have lost faith in our marriage since.But thinking of my daughter's sake(she's not too keen to see her mother back after all the abuse), should I patch up with her ?

2006-10-14 14:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by chasen54 5

IS THAT CALLED IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES ? THE DAUGHTER CALLS IN TEARS AND SAYS THEY HAD A BLOW-UP IN FRONT OF THE KIDS SCREAMING AND YELLING . THE KIDS WERE CRYING 10.8. 6 . THE LAST 4 WEEKS HAVE BEEN A NIGHTMARE. SHE STILL LOVES HIM ..WONT LEAVE THE HOUSE OR THE CHILDREN

2006-10-14 14:21:51 · 20 answers · asked by Mark H 1

I am getting married March 1st 2007 and me and my fionce is having an irish wedding because we are both irish but we are not sure what the good luck adn bad luck superstitions and traditions are. So we are looking for answers to our questions....

2006-10-14 14:16:21 · 7 answers · asked by Sierra E 2

i have been with my boyfriend since i was 16. I an 20 now. and he is 23. I love him and he is the only boy i have ever loved and will ever love. We have always talked about getting married. And we want to have a family someday. He would make the best father. He has hinted about giving me a ring. I really think i am ready and i know he is the one for me. What should i do?

2006-10-14 14:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by Maverick 1

He does have 2 children from a previous relationship.

2006-10-14 14:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by Angie W 1

why would a cheating husband (we are seperated now) act like i no longer exsist.......he has moved in with his gf.......its only been 6 months after 24 yrs of marriage of which i thought was happy............and ideas

2006-10-14 14:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Two years ago, I was basically caught cheating with my ex-GF. Our marriage has been very strained since then. Throughout our 5 year marriage, my wife has been in contact often with an ex of hers. They email each other back and forth often, and often "cyber" through email. Some of the emails make it sound like they have a pretty good sexual relationship going. My wife doesn't know that I know about her ex and that I know that they are having sex. The thing is, I almost don't care if she wants to have sex with me and that other guy too, I just want to be able to do the same thing if/when I want to with a girl if I'm attracted and all that good stuff. What should I do?

2006-10-14 13:50:52 · 31 answers · asked by KT 3

her don come to my house trying to destroy my marriage and my husband agreed does any one have a mother in law who needs to mind her business

2006-10-14 13:39:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i will be celebrating my 1 yr anniversary with my hubby and i want to know how i can bring the intimatcy back.see we cant have sex yet since i recently gave birth 6 weeks ago and had a severe complications with my surgery so i have to postpone sex a lil but i feel like we have no excitement anymore.guys any ideas or girls?
aside fromt he fact we share a room with our baby right now

2006-10-14 13:34:24 · 15 answers · asked by Preschool diva 2

My cousin is going to ask his girlfriend to marry her. He doesn't want it to be public and he wants to do it as soon as possible without spending anymore money (he's broke after buying the ring). They live on a farm with horses, and he can only come up with putting the ring (in the box) inside the oats and when she's scooping the oats out of the barrel to feed the horses, she would find it and then he would propose. He says he can't think of anything else but I can tell he's clueless as what would be good and original. Any really creative ideas? Note: he doesn't want it done in front of anyone, just the two of them.

2006-10-14 13:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by Ginnabee 2

shall i flirt with her? shal i act like im not interested? pass your opinions plz.
we were together 8 yrs we have 2 step kids and 1 child 2 yr old.
we are tight but had are ups and downs.

2006-10-14 13:19:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

with either a friend co-worker or relative be honest everyone has cheated once

2006-10-14 13:17:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband in his 50's started smoking pot after 6 years of marriage, At home and work. He got lazy and irresponsible. But he thought he was pretty funny. I found it annoying.I divorced him. Did I do the right thing.

2006-10-14 13:11:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am on heart medication and i have a low sex drive, my husband has told me that I don't satisfy his sexual needs, but what I am not able to do he takes care of with porn. THis makes me feel bad and I'm worried about our sex life. My question is my husband says that I make a bigger deal out of this than him, and its ok if I don't have a high sex drive...this does not make sense to me. If its not a big deal then WHY would he need the porn? I feel like he's lying...I feel like he's saying one thing bu doing another. And what married man that tells his wife that he loves her would tell her that he doesn't care about the sex? Any thought would be so helpful to me, thanks.

2006-10-14 13:08:42 · 14 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

the time the husband need to wait before geeting involve after a painful divorce from a 20 year marriage wher the 3 teenage kids cut tides with the father for cheating on the mother among other bad things he did before walking out ..

2006-10-14 13:07:05 · 14 answers · asked by free@last 1

I AM A NEW WIFE FIRST TIME MARRIAGE. AND MY HUSBAND OF TWO WEEKS JUST WENT TO JAIL FOR A DUI. HE IS IN FOR ABOUT 45 DAYS. I AM NEW TO THE AREA I LIVE IN AND DONT HAVE ANY FRIENDS YET. DOES ANY ONE HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO SPEND ALL MY TIME NOW.

2006-10-14 13:05:44 · 25 answers · asked by rggilmore2006 1

I was wondering is there anyway we could get it back, he doesnt know why, he said it wasnt becasue of me, it says it just happened...
Thanks

2006-10-14 13:05:29 · 12 answers · asked by ~*Jenny*~ 4

2006-10-14 12:59:00 · 21 answers · asked by x96834fox 1

I'm a Junior in High School and my boyfriend of one year is a Freshman in College. We have a great relationship. We both can honestly see ourselves getting married. He's going to school to be a High School teacher and will probably be a Basketball coach after he gets his teaching job. Well I've just been thinking how do we make his career work with my dreams? I don't have a set career path yet, but I know my interests and I don't see most of them as "settle down" jobs. I plan to go into environmental career. I'm just not sure what jobs are right for me that will work with his life plan. Any Ideas, thoughts.. Anything really.. =)

2006-10-14 12:51:43 · 4 answers · asked by stormey4 2

I still care about him would it be ok to write him a letter and be there through this rough patch or should I let the sleeping dog lie?

2006-10-14 12:50:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 12:41:55 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know a heterosexual couple in which the husband joined the US Army to take care of his new wife and both there children. They got married on a Wednesday he left for Basic the following week Friday she had another man in her bed Saturday morning. Just while in Basic his wife had "relations" with 3 different men. One of which brought a new PC for the woman {I don't consider her a lady so I won't insult others by calling her such} for XMAS. She played it off to hubby with a lie about how she saved the money for it {note: his was the only paycheck coming in the house and the times he was able to call she complained she had no money for the bills} But at Xmas all of a sudden this $500+ PC shows up. He blindly ignores the curious situation and returns to Basc then AIT. She then hooks up with a new guy and brings him to my house. trying to get me an my wifes approval of the guy.

Well her huband returns proud of his having completed his training, then gets sent to Iraq. While ther she tells my wife she is "in love "with another man but she "wants to play it safe" and not tell hubby just in case things don't work with new boyfriend she can stay with hubby who pays her bills. Even stating "If B###n gets killed I'mputting his son up for adoption and keeping the insurance for myself" Well B###n lived but instead of a loving wife and family he returns to a neighbor who his wife left his son with and news that she sent her daughter to he ex to raise and she ran off to be with L###y. Not a fitting homecoming for anyone. Well B###n thinks of how to make a life for his son and himself. When all of a sudden he gets a call from his cheating wife she wants to "work things out" She found out L###y was NOT going to pay her bills so she left him for her husband.

2006-10-14 12:36:37 · 11 answers · asked by BLADE 4

I want a divorce. I've asked him for a divorce a few times. He's agreed, left but keeps returning as if nothing ever happened and as if nothing was ever talked about. This last time he said he was going to his mothers while things got ironed out..he was spotted sleeping in the park in his truck..then the next night he just rolled into the parking space and sat there with the motor stil running and trying to get some sleep. Everytime I feel sorry for him and take him back. I want him to know I'm serious but i don't want to crush him. I'm just tired of arguing and fighting. We've done counseling..i know if we divorced things would be alright. I don't know what to do.

2006-10-14 12:33:31 · 24 answers · asked by justwonderingwhatever 5

Father was served with Court Order requesting temporary guardianship. Parents have never been married, no pervious court order, Father was consistent of financial support of his children plus her others children, always involved in family affairs. HELP! Is there an organization that helps fathers to fight for custody? This action on the part on her parents comes as a great shock for when he received the devastating news that the Mother of his children had a stroke he closed down his business, drove hundred’s of miles to sit by her bedside. The thought of his young children losing their mother was difficult, but know he has to fight the grandmother is heartbreaking. One of the reasons why their relationships continued after the breakup is because she loved the way he loved all of her children. HELP! IS THERE AN ORGANZATION THAT HELPS FATHERS TO FIGHT FOR CUSTODY1? Time is of the essence! 2 weeks to court date.

2006-10-14 12:30:55 · 8 answers · asked by jazcy 2

why do most ladies say they need a real man but when a man is trying to know them and respect them the ladies dont want to even try to get to know them

2006-10-14 12:21:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married and have been for years but I find myself daydreaming about another man but its not of a sexual nature. its more about being with this person how I met them reconnected with them hanging out feeling special. is that wrong?

2006-10-14 12:10:54 · 19 answers · asked by cc 4

I mean I cook, I help with homework, I get kids ready for school, I go to school, I do the girls hair, and I even give my husband what he wants, but I feel like it's not enough. Do anyone have any advice?

2006-10-14 12:10:50 · 23 answers · asked by 3boys,&3girls 2

My hubby has a lot of "close"female friends.I've only met one of them.She attended our wedding 7yrs ago and I have a lot of respect for her but what of the others?He has never introduced them to me but always seem to be busy doing something for them

2006-10-14 12:06:36 · 36 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

What do you do when you miss your baby's father and can't tell him because you know that it's over and there is no relationship anymore? What do you do when you just love them too much and they can't seem to understand how you feel?

2006-10-14 12:03:15 · 15 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 1