why would a cheating husband (we are seperated now) act like i no longer exsist.......he has moved in with his gf.......its only been 6 months after 24 yrs of marriage of which i thought was happy............and ideas
2006-10-14 14:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because he is a fool of a man. If he cheated on you honey so will he her, so sit back and be ready to laugh when she kicks his sorry you know what out. You need to move on since he certainly has and find happiness without someone like him
2006-10-14 14:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by dollynjanie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
After 24 years of marriage there would have to be a bit of history between the both of you. I cant believe he would seriously not think about you, it would be impossible. Maybe the answer lies in the reason you and he separated. I know he cheated, but did you tell him to go or he told you he was going? Was the reason he left because of the girl he was cheating with?
Maybe hes angry and if you told him to go, then he may be behaving this way to "pay you back". It could be a number of reasons, but its only early stages too...6 months is not a long time considering the two of you were married for 24 years. In his quiet moments he would be thinking about you and the last 24 years. You cannot wipe 24 years of memories with someone away so quickly. I am sure you do exist in his mind, you are just anaware of it. Maybe you need to call him and ask to have a meeting with him to sort these issues out. I would assume the two of you have children, so I dont think it is as cut and dried as you think it is. Talk to him, find out exactly what is going on in his head because that is the only way you are going to find out. Any of us on here are only guessing because we dont have the details and either are any of us in your husband's head. He knows what he is thinking, but you are only guessing. Just talk to him.
2006-10-14 21:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sooo sorry..24yrs is a long time...you deserve to be finally happy and you can just try to forget him and get on with your life. He wil cheat on her and a girl like that could cheat on him...then he'll realize what a fool he has been or maybe not but either way find things to make you happy. Flirt, laugh and do the things that you couldn't do when you were married...
2006-10-14 21:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's inconsiderate and a dog... not to be disrespectful, but, a lot of guys can just walk away from their marriage, wife and kids as if it never existed... but, it's all good. The grass is not greener on te other side; and he'll soon see that... and if he cheated on you, he'll get bored with the girlfriend soon enough, so, she better prepare herself, b/c he's going to cheat on her too. Once a dog... always a dog... you just go on with your life. Find a hobby; and don't sweat your ex-husband, he's not even worth youthinking about.
2006-10-14 22:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by A Lady @ ALL Times 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real dud. 24 yrs out the window for some other woman. I hope you can, or already did, move on and be happy.
2006-10-14 21:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by bc.grown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes 24 years is a long time, my husband of 10 years did the same to me, he treated me as if i did not exist, when i asked him to help me until the divorce he laughted at me and said i was not his problem.yes it did hurt, but it showed me what he really thought of me.i was hurt and wanted him back, but i filed for divorce instead,and left the state,never talked to him again, and now i have a wonderful boyfriend who doesn't cheat. alot i believe has to do with the girlfriend and he odviously is doing what she says to do. anyway he is not who you thought he was, and it's hard to break up with someone you trusted your life with, who you thought would never hurt you like this, but it does happen, and the only way out is to get a divorce. the other woman is telling him what to do and he is ignoring you, because she doesn't want him talking to you at all,she doesn't want him getting any second thoughts about you.also when he sees you he sees what he did to you, and down deep he knows it was wrong.
2006-10-14 22:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you did not exist when he was cheating on you.
Time to move on....he does not care about you even after 24 years.....what a loser
2006-10-14 21:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obvoiusly an ***. Maybe it's a midlife crisis. I'm sorry you have to deal with that, nobody deserves that. Good luck.
2006-10-14 21:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by charlotte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he's an ***. His new "relationship" is going to go to Hades, and he will come running back to you.
2006-10-14 21:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing you makes him feel like the dog that he is.
2006-10-14 21:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by boozer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋