I know a heterosexual couple in which the husband joined the US Army to take care of his new wife and both there children. They got married on a Wednesday he left for Basic the following week Friday she had another man in her bed Saturday morning. Just while in Basic his wife had "relations" with 3 different men. One of which brought a new PC for the woman {I don't consider her a lady so I won't insult others by calling her such} for XMAS. She played it off to hubby with a lie about how she saved the money for it {note: his was the only paycheck coming in the house and the times he was able to call she complained she had no money for the bills} But at Xmas all of a sudden this $500+ PC shows up. He blindly ignores the curious situation and returns to Basc then AIT. She then hooks up with a new guy and brings him to my house. trying to get me an my wifes approval of the guy.
Well her huband returns proud of his having completed his training, then gets sent to Iraq. While ther she tells my wife she is "in love "with another man but she "wants to play it safe" and not tell hubby just in case things don't work with new boyfriend she can stay with hubby who pays her bills. Even stating "If B###n gets killed I'mputting his son up for adoption and keeping the insurance for myself" Well B###n lived but instead of a loving wife and family he returns to a neighbor who his wife left his son with and news that she sent her daughter to he ex to raise and she ran off to be with L###y. Not a fitting homecoming for anyone. Well B###n thinks of how to make a life for his son and himself. When all of a sudden he gets a call from his cheating wife she wants to "work things out" She found out L###y was NOT going to pay her bills so she left him for her husband.
2006-10-14 12:36:37 · 11 answers · asked by BLADE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All this was during the first 2 years of there marriage. His 10 year old son can see the woman is not wife material why can't he. She says she wants to make a new start but she has told my wife that about guys since we were in grade school yet and still she continues to be likethe MARINES wanting a few "Good" men.
Why don't people remember the old saying , somethin like "You can't turn {something or other} into a housewife."?
2006-10-14 12:45:18 · update #1
i think brian needs to hunt down and kick the living crap out of larry . and do his wife in the butt for good measure
2006-10-14 12:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people's 'career' is scamming other people. Hopefully the standup guy learns this sooner than later and never gets suckered again. None of the good people like to think someone would play them but it is like robbers, they are just out to take and they really are too low to care who they rob.
Be the standup guys friend and encourage him not to get played any more.
On behalf of the female species, I apologize and should I ever meet the bimbo, I'll whack her for you.
2006-10-14 12:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me put this kindly oh the h3ll with it she is a gold digger and a low life and lets not forget a s1ut she isn't a lady she is a tramp and i think what she is doing with these men has a name and it's hooker what he needs to do kick her *** to the curb befoe she gives him aids and find someone who will respect him as well as her self and the term is can't turn a whore into a house wife and thats what she is .
2006-10-14 12:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just can't see it when you love a person,some people hide it well when they are cheating,they don't show any of the usual signs,because they aren't ready to leave that person yet.you could tell him but that won't work either cause he will be angry at you.eventually these kind of people get caught up with and they get their come uping's.
2006-10-14 12:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this man is either very stupid or very lonely..There isn't much you can do in this situation..he is going to do what he wants
I think you should distance you and you wife away from those people cause its gotta be very frustraiting on you!!
2006-10-14 16:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by tazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about all this but i do like the way you started it all. mentioning the writting on the wall...very interesting choice of words that grabbed my attention right off the bat! wish it could of been about the writtings on the wall!
2006-10-14 13:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
too many good ppl are hurt by the ones they love...to bad his wife can hook up my ex....they deserve eachother. hopefully he wont fall for it and not take the #### back. there are too many good women out there for him to waste his time on her.
2006-10-14 12:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell to sell her computer and get a job. and be a woman. or go to a women's shelter
2006-10-14 12:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is none of your business, unless you need this info for a book your writing.
2006-10-14 12:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is blind as they say
2006-10-14 12:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋