Marriage & Divorce - 14 October 2006

She was a work collegue of mine, and i was trying to be friendly as she didn't have many friends. My husband was very drunk when he tried it on. I was dealing with a breast lump and he said he did it as i didn't pay him enough attention. The one at work recently he was texting her to talk to as he said he can't talk to me. I constantly want to talk but he won't discuss it. He says it's in the past. In Jan i told him to leave which he did. 2 days later i begged him to come back, which he did. I'm really trying to put it in the past and move on but he has now made me into an insecure and jelous person, which i never was. I think i'm scared if he was to leave. I do love him, but don't think i will ever trust him or forgive him. Just don't know what to do for the best.

2006-10-14 09:03:11 · 14 answers · asked by alfie 1

If a person leaves their spouse for someone they are having an affair with - do you consider this a rebound relationship? What types of problems will this couple have

2006-10-14 09:01:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 08:57:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 08:45:52 · 24 answers · asked by joshjones007 1

what secrets must we keep from our partners?

2006-10-14 08:41:04 · 20 answers · asked by katz 1

2006-10-14 08:39:39 · 14 answers · asked by aluminum22rocker 3

2006-10-14 08:32:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 08:27:20 · 19 answers · asked by angelmae 2

Recently he became very friendly with a girl at work. I just can't get it out of my head. I would like to tell him to leave but worried about kids and mortgage etc...

2006-10-14 08:24:50 · 40 answers · asked by alfie 1

simply because of this disease the veins in my penis have became very weak and can not maintain a good erection.but i think i should get married because no one can spend whole life without a wife.please give me some good suggestion.

2006-10-14 08:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by sad boy 1

2006-10-14 08:19:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know he loves me and things are going great but i will like to do something for him that will rock his world. I want that men to be crazy about me. Any ideas?

2006-10-14 08:18:27 · 15 answers · asked by xadralix 2

OK, now I know I'm crazy. My husband & I have been seperated for about a month. I know that is not much time. Both of us have had trouble letting go. He was the one that wanted it, not me. The first few weeks, we were calling each other constantly. We'd meet for dinner & we're not fighting any more. Its starting to get easier for me that he is not here. I dont need to call him every day anymore. We have to keep in touch because we have a daughter & yes I still love him & probably always will. But our differences our too big. Our marriage is over. We'll be filing for divorce soon. So why for the last several days I have had a desire to make love with him one last time? I haven't told him how I'm feeling, frankly because I dont like rejection. Lack of sex in our marriage was a huge problem for me.

2006-10-14 08:16:37 · 16 answers · asked by Amy 3

I have written a blog on the topic, and I would be honored if you would read my words, and leave a comment if you like.

2006-10-14 08:11:54 · 18 answers · asked by The Heart Doctor 2

What do I do with him? He always says the wrong things and is a constant embarrassment at functions. I can't divorce him... not the done thing, any suggestions to keep him quiet outside of the home?

2006-10-14 08:11:45 · 40 answers · asked by Hobnobs 3

My husband called at 10:32 pm last night and he said that he was working on his truck (just bought the truck wensday) and he said he would be coming home soon. It is 2:00pm and I stil have not heard from him. I do not want to go out and look for him (why drag the kids out hunting their dad down like a dog) I do not think he is having an affair, but I could be fooling myself, because for the last year he has been sleeping on the couch. I think the sprarks in our marriage have fizzled out a long time ago. what should i do????

2006-10-14 08:08:58 · 12 answers · asked by JANET 2

Hi i am 18 years old my husband is 21 and we got married 2 months ago in Vegas a spur of the moment thing that orginally started as a joke.That same night we also managed to concieve a child i got an ultra sound and a pelvic to confirm after an EPT. We have only known each other 3 months really and that night we got into a fight at his dorm about the baby he informed me that he wanted to stay married and that we would be moving in with his parents as soon as possible!His very italian parents hate me!because i am not italian i have never done anything too them!I stormed out and walked for about an hour to get to a friends house crying. My friend steve is gay!so i saw no harm in sleeping over at his place in same bed its a one bedroom place the coach doubles as a bed. Two hours later at 1:00 a.m my husband was banging on the door my friend steve went to get the door and my husband saw me in the bed and hit him in the face broke his jaw!

2006-10-14 08:04:12 · 17 answers · asked by Keri O 1

If I hate having sex with my husband, is this a reasonable reason to split with him? Otherwise I love him, he's a good person and loves me very much. But our sex life is awful. It has gone from the sex being okay, to me not feeling anything for him during to sex, to the point where I actually feel like I am being violated when we have sex. I know he wants more than I give him, and I know I am not happy with this area of our life. I dont think I can change the way I feel about, and I will not do the things he wants me to - oral sex, anal,because the idea disgusts me. (not in general, but with him.) When we try to talk about it, he ends up blaming everything on me, and then I want him even less. What should I do?

2006-10-14 08:03:47 · 24 answers · asked by psa73 4

Actually they are my boyfriend's family .. he has a family dinner tonight at his house and he invited me over .. but the last time we had this his family was so quiet (there are 8 people in his family at the dinner excluding me -- his mom, dad, 2 sisters, 2 brother in laws and a 2 yr old neice) and it just felt so awkward .. and tryin to make conversation with them is sooo tough because they are a more reserved family so almost anything i say seems inappropriate because his mom gives me this .. weird look of disapproval or sth .. should i try and get out of this or wat can i do to dissolve the quiet awkwardness?

2006-10-14 07:58:03 · 13 answers · asked by Cexy C 1

2006-10-14 07:54:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

can my soon to be ex-wife and i remain staying in house together,till final court? can i make payments to her for her share of house? and what if she changes the locks on doors,can i break open my own doors to still live here?

2006-10-14 07:53:57 · 6 answers · asked by Chris m 1

new marriage, can they make new wife pay for a child who isnt hers

2006-10-14 07:46:57 · 6 answers · asked by steph121m 1

I met a guy in the islands-he dazzled me-we met for 10 minutes-I sent a note telling him I wanted to ask him out- he emailed me back saying he would of said yes, and asking for a picture as if he couldn't remember me- so now a couple of emails later he is still asking for a photo- this is an ugly test for men whose radar you didn't hit? Right? Should I send the photo- or not- or sent a knock out younger picture of me and say- here it is- and for asking me to pass the ugly test- forget it---ughh what to do?- I really liked this guy, darn it.

2006-10-14 07:46:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 07:42:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

look everybody knows what to do. you always hear----he did this,,she did this...you know whats wrong and whats right,
you just hope that someone will tell you what you just want to hear.
but you need to be straight up with yourself,,and stop lieing to yourself,deal with it and get on with your life. now who has something that they would like to share? it can be about any thing.

2006-10-14 07:40:13 · 5 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2

What is the cheapest way to get a divorce? I am with a man right now and he is still married to a not so good of a woman and I need some help trying to help him get a divorce. They have been seperated for years and she wont even let him see his children so plz help me!!!

2006-10-14 07:39:06 · 5 answers · asked by joeysgirl89 2

How often do you think about the woman you cheated with?

2006-10-14 07:38:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If both r of same Religeion.
Husband is 2 yrs younger than Wife.
Wife is of Higher caste n Husband of Lower.
I don't believe in caste system. Discrimination is always a bad thing.
M asking if it may occur in Sikh Communities.....
U MAY GIV ANSWERS AS PER UR COMMUNITIES....

2006-10-14 07:28:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guys italian moma wont like me because i am spanish/french and not italian!I dont cosider this a reason and she also wants to give me a hellish test over my cooking and cleaning!This is America for gods sake whats wrong with this woman?She had to be forced to even meet me i feel really upset what can i do she makes it a point to say something rude about everything nothing is ever right!And yet my future hubby adores her and she waits on him hand and foot whenever possible.

2006-10-14 07:23:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

After living together for a year he told me he loves me but not 100%. He is younger than me but treats me very well and is very sweet. I do notice he looks at younger women a lot but I believe he is true to me. He acts like he loves me. We have been together for 3 years now and I still feel confused about our future. What do you think? Would you stay with someone if they said they loved you but not 100%?

2006-10-14 07:12:16 · 14 answers · asked by 6-Pack? 2