I met a guy in the islands-he dazzled me-we met for 10 minutes-I sent a note telling him I wanted to ask him out- he emailed me back saying he would of said yes, and asking for a picture as if he couldn't remember me- so now a couple of emails later he is still asking for a photo- this is an ugly test for men whose radar you didn't hit? Right? Should I send the photo- or not- or sent a knock out younger picture of me and say- here it is- and for asking me to pass the ugly test- forget it---ughh what to do?- I really liked this guy, darn it.
2006-10-14 07:46:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If u really like him go for it. Just don't be too infatuated, remember u don't know anything about him.
2006-10-14 07:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever want to have a successful relationship, you must accept the fact that men are visual creatures just as women generally prefer men of resources. It is a natural fact of life that no amount of socialization is going to change. If you really want to get to know the guy, be honest with him and send him a current pic. Either he will like what he sees and want to take the next step or he won't. It may be hard, because you are obviously very attracted to him, but try to be casual about it.
Good luck!
2006-10-14 15:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are primarily visual, you ought to know that by now. We can not help it. Ask him if he thinks you need to pass an ugly test, and see what he says. then just say I am a 7 or 5 or whtever you honestly think. For a female with drawbacks (heavy) you need a long reationship to get past mens heredity. You can not help wanting to be loved right? That too is genetic.
2006-10-14 14:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The loser doesn't even remember you. Go back to the islands - they are full of men who would like to get to know you better. That dude probably pulled the same thing with a lot of other girls that day so he's not sure which one you were. Move on!
2006-10-14 14:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to see a picture because he is having trouble remembering you. If you send him a picture, maybe he thinks he will remember what you talked about. And maybe this will remind him of whether or not he enjoyed the conversation.
2006-10-14 15:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by professorpippyppoopypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay....I'm the uneducated one? LOL you are hilarious. In case you didn't notice genius...my question asked for married people only to answer...not desperate single women like yourself. I wouldn't be judging you so harshly if you hadn't left such a smartass comment to a serious question. Get a life.
2006-10-15 16:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't give him one. He's going for looks, ask him why since you both already met. Sounds like he did forget and goes around chasing girls.
2006-10-14 14:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Fia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send the photo. Geez! Obviously he was not as dazzled, don't waste your time or heart
2006-10-14 14:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by harry_potter_kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, send a CURRENT picture. Guys are not that dumb and it does insult us when women try that.
2006-10-14 14:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, my quick answer is fahgetaboutit!
2006-10-14 14:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by gene m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋