Hi i am 18 years old my husband is 21 and we got married 2 months ago in Vegas a spur of the moment thing that orginally started as a joke.That same night we also managed to concieve a child i got an ultra sound and a pelvic to confirm after an EPT. We have only known each other 3 months really and that night we got into a fight at his dorm about the baby he informed me that he wanted to stay married and that we would be moving in with his parents as soon as possible!His very italian parents hate me!because i am not italian i have never done anything too them!I stormed out and walked for about an hour to get to a friends house crying. My friend steve is gay!so i saw no harm in sleeping over at his place in same bed its a one bedroom place the coach doubles as a bed. Two hours later at 1:00 a.m my husband was banging on the door my friend steve went to get the door and my husband saw me in the bed and hit him in the face broke his jaw!
2006-10-14 08:04:12 · 17 answers · asked by Keri O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trying to prevent my friend from pressing charges
2006-10-14 08:10:40 · update #1
He knows he is gay and does not care!
2006-10-14 08:14:13 · update #2
My god i am really sorry to hear that!try and explain the situation to your husband!maybe he might see the funny side of it when he really finds out your friend is Gay!Then maybe he would apologise to your friend and they both get along!..But before that you and your husband are back together right?
2006-10-14 08:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ghass 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Jeeze! Can you blame your husband? I don't care if your friend is gay or not. All your husband seen was you in bed with a guy! Now lets turn this around, What would you do if you seen your husband in bed with another women? Even if she was a lesbian? As for living with his parents, you will just have to grin and bear it, until you can get a place of your own. It was a joke that you both decided to get married, well I hate to say this, but the joke is on you!
2006-10-14 08:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The moral of the story is that you should not marry someone you do not know very well. You did not know that your husband was a fighter.
Secondly, never, never never,never sleep in bed with a next man after you get married. That does not matter how gay he is. Your man will not like it. He has his family to face.
Thirdly, expect your friend to press charges for assault. He should do that.
Then take responsibility for all this TV movie and wish that you do not run those kind of jokes again.
2006-10-14 09:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you dont seem very responsible in the first place. Are you sure you should be having children?
Can you blame him for hitting a guy in the face who was sleeping with you?
And, no. You cant "make" your husband like your friends. He obviously is an entirely different person.
As a married person, you need to be more concerned with your husband's feelings and maintaining a happy family unit when the baby comes.
2006-10-14 08:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Clark W Griswold 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww poor wittle stevie...why did you not go to a girl friends place? I dont give a Rats A ss if he is gay or not....you had no right to go sleeping in the same bed with another man! Steve is just luck that you are not my wife...he would have much more to worry about than drinking soup for the next 6 weeks.
2006-10-14 13:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in for a very long hard life. I PERSONALLY think your husband was right to hit that guy YOUR PREGNANT in anothers mans bed NEWLY MARRIED who cares that the guy is GAY I HAD A GAY friend who tried to screw me before. Your making very poor choices all around it's part of growing up everyone has to make their own mistakes you are getting started on yours. In 2 YEARS i don't see this marriage working. I started a lil family at 18 STUPIDEST thing i ever did. your young and dumb TIME TO grow up or give that baby up your not mentally ready for what you got yourself into.
2006-10-14 08:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, in the last three weeks you have asked this same question in a couple of different ways.....
Grow up, get off the computer, and work on your marriage, or get a divorce.
Anyone that wants can look at and read and re-read this same story about four or five times in the last three weeks.
You are hung up on sympathy it seems.
2006-10-14 08:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahahhahhahahha If I was your husband I would start sleeping over with some lesbians, after all there shouldn't be a problem with that.
2006-10-14 08:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two are way to young to be married and having kids. But you may make it to the Jerry Springer Show!!
2006-10-14 09:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wise up, young lady. Don't expect your husband to be understanding of this garbage. Get some decent friends, or you may lose your husband. If he wants to stay with you, you don't know how blessed you are.
2006-10-17 11:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋