Marriage & Divorce - 14 October 2006

prefer staying unmarried with their partners lifelong, even have babies, but don't want to be married. I fail to understand why! in my opinion, if you are married you have security. It is easier to break a no-string-attached relationship than a married relationship.

2006-10-14 16:52:42 · 27 answers · asked by GAWD 2

2006-10-14 16:50:50 · 11 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

are you supposed to use salt & pepper, oregano? Do you use oil? And how long do you rub it down? I'm cooking my husband's big juicy tasty steak right now, so I want to try something different with it, other than just eating it w/ A-1.

2006-10-14 16:49:20 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-10-14 16:48:13 · 17 answers · asked by imyourangel0 1

I read this somewhere..." Physical abuse damages the body, emotional (verbal) abuse damages the soul." Do you agree?

2006-10-14 16:41:52 · 23 answers · asked by ? 5

anytime with his wife or 7yr old daughter cause hed rather be a cop and fight everyone elses problems. when i say there is nothing going on in the marriage i mean nothing and i am having to deal with no sex and we have been married for 13yrs and have adopted a child and i have no job and im ready to move on but i have medical complications and wondering how im gonna make it on my own and afford my medicine that is expensive ..not sure how to get the motivation to move on and sometimes think i should just stay in my comfort zone but im not happy....anybody out there with advice on how to help me?

2006-10-14 16:40:32 · 22 answers · asked by katie 2

My husband had and affair almost 2yrs ago, with a very much older lady. Anyway after finding out, he quit job and did what ever to keep me. Me going on meds, and seeing a counsleler to get past all this pain. We even had a baby. Now almost 2yrs later, she left a unknown call on his cell phone leaving a message asking for a phone back if he didn't want it. I found the message. He says he never heard it before and admitted he thought it was her, and has NOT seen or Talked to her in two yrs. So why would a woman 18yrs older leave a unknown call and message on his phone to start something. HOW would she know I would hear it? Why didn't she say something of a sexual nature to start something with him or get me mad. He says he has NO idea whats going on, or why. But didn't call to yell at her for starting trouble or to stay away for good. So do you think something was going on or she is just some crazy chaising my hubby?

2006-10-14 16:37:15 · 26 answers · asked by Becky J 1

some toenail clippers.

2006-10-14 16:28:29 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 16:14:59 · 14 answers · asked by godchildn2motion 1

2006-10-14 16:07:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

married almost 13 years. i am catholic with four children. my husband and i argue all the time about everything. i have been with this man since 19 years old. as soon as i graduated from college we married. i feel that i am not truly happy and i feel life has more to offer both of us but not togeither. i told him we need a break from each other he states that he is not going anywhere. meanwhile i am the primary caretaker for the children because he works 3p to 11p monday thru friday. should i just go through life with my feelings of regret or should i try and move on. counseling is not an option we've done that before on another situation.

2006-10-14 16:06:41 · 23 answers · asked by wise1 2

hi, i am going out with this great girl and everything is going great, i am thinking of asking her to marry me but everywhere i hear and see that after a couple of years and so on marriage turns shitty and it's all complaints and so on.
can anyone tell me if they have a great marriage and how long it's been or should i stay with her the way it still is

thanks,

2006-10-14 15:59:40 · 20 answers · asked by Jimmy T 1

2006-10-14 15:54:25 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1

the other appitite is almost always sastified. just wondering

2006-10-14 15:50:25 · 12 answers · asked by donna r 3

Many people always talk about love and how important it is? How many people are willing to admit that love isn't too hot if you're broke and can't get anything?

2006-10-14 15:49:35 · 14 answers · asked by Torrey O 1

My Common law husband and I live together, he spends very little time with me and likes it that way. Now he thinks we should spend time away from eachother even more, he thinks we should have alone time with our friends, (he has friends who are attractive females--that he just started picking up at school etc. Should this be allowed? Is this normal? Am I just being overly jealous? He told me this is normal..it makes me think he already has someone on the side, I want to hire a private investigator, I have the strongest feeling something isnt right..Can someone here help me out on whether or not this is normal and what you would do...btw we just had a baby six weeks ago.

2006-10-14 15:49:33 · 14 answers · asked by jennyve25 4

this has been a very bad night i need a hug

2006-10-14 15:43:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

When did it come in force and if not when did it stop? Do one need a divorce or is entitled to anyhting when one or the other dies.

2006-10-14 15:42:38 · 10 answers · asked by JoJoBa 6

This is not really a marriage and divorce question ,but I get the best answers from the people reading this section.What is wrong with people in the USA, we have more freedom than most any other country .Do people not understand that there are hundreds of thousands of men and women in graves and still walking around that have gave their lives for our freedoms! I'm very gratefull to them but it seems like 90% of people these days don't care where our freedom came from.I'm I the only one that feels this way?

2006-10-14 15:37:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that he lied to me about picking up another woman a year ago (we were dating at that time) Should I confront him about it and see why he lied in which he's going to say we were both at opposing views as far as that situation where he knew I would get jealous. What should I do?

2006-10-14 15:33:25 · 23 answers · asked by bettyspagettii 1

i dont love him and told him i want a devorce so he trashed everything and now i have nothing i dont no what to do please help

2006-10-14 15:24:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 15:14:59 · 7 answers · asked by Corrina G 1

2006-10-14 15:08:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

a married man cheats ..........with a girl he met at work comes back home says sorry......we try to work it out he says he wont quit his job.......he expects the wife..........me ........to just deal with it he has the balls to say i need to trust him lol......anyway 6 months have passed he lives with her now.......does he lack a heart at what he has done to me ?.........does he feel no guilt.......by the way he is 42 she the girl is 21

2006-10-14 14:53:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a relationship with a man 30 years older than me. He is verbally, emotionally, and psychologically abusive to me. I am trapped with him...my only income is social security, which is not enough to live on with two children. I want to get away from him so bad....but it seems like there is no way out. I tried to get help through the local domestic violence office, but they could only put us in a motel for two days. Since my son is 17, he's considered a man, and they do not allow men to live in the women's shelter. I have no family that can help me, and he has alienated all the friends I once had. I don't know what to do, I'm desperate to have him out of my life. Being disabled, it's hard to find a job and I really have no job skills. The abuse keeps getting worse and worse and I'm afraid he will kill me if I stay with him. Can anyone offer any suggestions? Serious only please.

2006-10-14 14:50:46 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5

if you had your preference and were actually able to.... would you prefer to be with different woman every night (and the woman are aware of this) and not have a relationship with any of them, or do you prefer to be just one woman in a long relationship, whether your relationship is good at this moment or not. I am trying to figure out would men prefer more woman than just the same one day in and day out.

2006-10-14 14:48:24 · 11 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

if a married man who does not usually wear his wedding band, all of a sudden wears it, out of the blue -- what do you think could be going on?

i know this guy for 2 years already and i've never seen him wear his wedding band. he says that he just doesn't like wearing it. one night i saw him wearing it for the first time (without the presence of his wife). do you think that's a good or a bad thing? and why?

2006-10-14 14:44:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 14:43:48 · 15 answers · asked by Mike S 7

She makes love to me only when she thinks or feels she will be pregnant.

2006-10-14 14:42:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have an 8y/o daughter..this ho has been around for almost 7 years...on and off again. They both swear nada going on but tell me why she would hang up when I answer, leave my house on my way in, and just in general do stupid sh..? I called her up one day about 3 years ago, cause it had gotten so bad. I told her to come and pack his sh.. and take him to the house with her raunchy as..She said"It's not like that......we're just friends" Of course, I said BS!
We had our marriage license at that time and were planning a June wed. He got his mom to bring me to the minister's home(tricked me!) and we got married. Sure, it was sweet. On our way home the bit.. had the nerve to blow the car horn at him on the way passed us unknowing that we had just wed! So he then said "Drop it! I just married YOU! I don't want her skank as.." Now here she pops in again! Just like a bad virus. One you can't get rid of. Now what are your comments on this?

2006-10-14 14:36:41 · 16 answers · asked by edgeston34 2