I'm in a similar situation. Let him trash that ****. All of that stuff can and will be replaced. What you can't replace is yourself and your son. GET OUT! Girlfriend, me and my kids left with the clothes on our backs. I didn't have any family in the city and I didn't have a job. I had nothing. It's sad because I didn't want to have to take my kids thru being "homeless" but better that than to have them go thru the mess he was bringing. I stayed with a friend and I prayed prayed and prayed. It is still an uphill battle because we started from scratch. But we have some PEACE in my house and it was well worth loosing everything. There are agencies that help too.
2006-10-14 15:37:59
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answered by Trice 1
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If this is in fact true, you have lots left. Your life for one, your son, and your dignity. Get the police and they will go to the house with you to remove anything that is left that you may want. There are agencies and help groups formed to help people to get on with their lives after being in an abusive relationship. Get your son to somewhere safe and try your best to take care of this nasty business out of your boy's presence. He may have been hurt by all of this, but he is still a child and that is still his father.
Do you have family you can stay with until you get on your feet and maybe get a furnished apartment?
Please get yourself some help and don't sweat the small stuff, in this case, the small stuff is just stuff.
Good Luck
2006-10-14 15:45:51
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answered by Cinderella 4
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Leave and get a restaining order as soon as possible, You will have to start over on everything but you will be much happier. If you have no where to go try a battered shelter for women and they will help you get back on your feet, if you have somewhere to live try to call salvation army or united way or something. Even churches in your area will help you out. May not be new stuff but you need to start a new life without him in it. You will be much happier and your son will too. Good Luck and im sorry you had to go threw this, wish i could help more.
2006-10-14 15:38:21
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answered by bradosmom 3
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Material items you can replace. Your health & wellbeing is a different matter. You told him you wanted out, he got pissed and trashed everything. I would rather have him lash out at my belongings than ME. Get out & get away. He'll come whining back later, saying how sorry he is... but don't buy it. Next time he might decide to trash YOU. And in the divorce decree, seek restitution for what he trashed (and document everything). Take pictures and inventory everything he destroyed. Keep a list (but don't keep anything where he can get at it).
2006-10-14 16:19:11
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answered by Larry F 4
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this one i do have experience with
Here it goes..You must make sure you stay away from him!! Call the police if he comes near you again!! If not for your self than for your son..he is violent!!..he will always be that way...STAY AWAY FROM HIM do what ever it takes..Material things can always be replaced..is there a local furniture place that gives you furniture?..I know that there must be from experience..it will do for now..as long as you and you kids don't have to go threw that again I would sleep or sit on the floor!!!...take my advice
2006-10-14 15:37:41
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answered by tazzle 2
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You need to get away from him to a safe place and call the police. Material things can be replaced, people can't.
2006-10-14 15:27:42
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answered by ? 6
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he is violent and could hurt you physically, please call your local woman's shelter, and get out of the marriage,my daughter was involved with a man like that, and many times she went back to him, and it always happened again. she finally divorced him and has a new husband now who has never abused her.
2006-10-14 15:36:52
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answered by jude 7
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I agree please leave with your son and go to the police for help and protection!~ I would be afraid of him and what else he is capable of doing!
2006-10-14 15:30:38
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answered by fancy 5
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Leave secretly when he's out of the house...
2006-10-14 15:34:58
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answered by Ai 3
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