What do you do when you miss your baby's father and can't tell him because you know that it's over and there is no relationship anymore? What do you do when you just love them too much and they can't seem to understand how you feel?
2006-10-14 12:03:15 · 15 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cry long and hard . . .
and then you move on . . .
2006-10-14 12:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Second question first, if your baby's father can't understand how you feel he is not the person for you. Even though it hurts now its for the best. Both you and your baby deserve someone who loves you back with their whole heart. Remeber there are 6.5 billion people in the world so you will definately have other relationships. First question: Journal, write a poem, talk to a trusted friend, lament to the universe in a room by yourself (shut yourself in a room and just spill it all out verbally), seek counseling if you want feedback, volunteer someplace where you feel needed (animal shelter, hospital, etc.), go out and enjoy life with your baby (like go to the zoo, a children's museum, the park, a walk, etc.). You deserve all that life has to offer and while rejection hurts, you will get through it and on to more of the good things life has to offer
2006-10-14 19:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by NanD 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time is the only thing that will ease the hurt, but in the meantime, keep yourself busy and try sitting down and writing a letter to him telling him how you feel, but don't send it...tear it up when you are done. Or start keeping a journal that you can put your feelings into. Either one helps you get the feelings out.
2006-10-14 19:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You learn to focus on other things. When thoughts of the baby's father come up, refocus on something else - find a hobby or something to occupy your time more. Try to redirect the energy into something positive and freeing. Don't allow yourself to become emotionally attached to a fleeting memory - he wasn't right for you, get over it and move on.
2006-10-14 21:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My best friend is going through that situation. She turns to me and her family.
He left her when she was pregnant with his child and we told her to leave him alone he would come to his senses and do the right thing. Well he is now trying to be in her life as well as the baby's life. She doesn't interfere when it comes to the baby and him but with her she lets him know.
You should leave him alone because the stress he caused you is not worth it.
2006-10-14 20:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Gucci S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to just give my opinion when I don't know the circumstances surrounding why you guys separated. Depending on the reason why your just his ''Baby Mama'', and not his ''WIFE'', and the mother of his child you may want to just get over those feelings. But like I said I don't know why you two separated.
2006-10-14 19:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take one day at a time. That is what I am doing. It is tough but you have to let go and move on. One day you will meet someone who is more deserving of your love.
2006-10-14 19:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have gotten married first before you did the hanky panky.
2006-10-14 20:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a book out there and it is called "women Who Love too Much" you find the strenght inside yourself and you carry on. before the child picks up on your sadness an depression. good luck...
2006-10-14 19:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i dont know thats a tough one you just need to let go and move on with your life .
2006-10-14 19:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she should try and talk to him. invite him out, start over and c if he stil has feelings for u. u have nothing to lose by trying
2006-10-14 19:16:35 · answer #11 · answered by Hatty Sue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋