Does your mother in law make you sick my mother law is upset because i told?

Question

her don come to my house trying to destroy my marriage and my husband agreed does any one have a mother in law who needs to mind her business

Answer 1

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. The old mother in law syndrome.

Answer 2

LOL wow this sounds familiar. I know how you feel but I realized my mother-in law is a mother and can take care of sick children and knows she can sick too. Let her take care of her. Your daughter doesn't care i'm sure and if she does she will ask for her mommy. I use to tell my mother-in law my daughter couldn't go over there cause she was sick and my mother-in law respected my wishes (my husband died while i was preggers with my daughter, her son died) after a few times of her getting sick my mother- in law nicely said she knows how to take care of a sick child and what she has isn't contagious and wants to give me a break so i can rest. I felt horrible, how can I deny her her own granddaughter. It's an insult if you ask me, now that i look back on it. I would apologize and tell her you were just being cautious with your daughter and realize she is a mother too and very capable of taking care of her. And tell her thank you when she watches her, I mean some grandparents don't care enough to want to watch their grandchildren. good luck!

Answer 3

My mother-in-law passed several years ago. I was so lucky, she was the greatest most loyal true friend I had in my life. I kinda didn't get along with her the 1st 1-2 yrs, then I begin to do things for her she couldn't do, (she was a little granny type woman,wore a dress with a clean apron over it every day),she never worked a public job and was focused on family-kinda like "Aunt Bea". I miss her folklore wisdom,her humor, miss her asking me to go to the basement & get her a jar of canned green beans or jam, and grateful she taught me one halloween day to make popcorn balls. What a lovely loving creature. I wanna be sooo like her & wish more mother in laws would realize they aren't competing, they are just a mother in law and how sweet & caring they are towards the daughter/son in law, the more advantage they have to being # 1 & 1/2 in the life of their children. And...I do miss her sooooo bad.

Answer 4

OH YEAH!! I have been married for 4 years now and she thinks the whole world revolves around her and her life. I have told her b4 nicely and not so nicely to butt out. We have been together for 8 years and I kid you not everytime there is a family function she has to do something dumb like cause a fight, get drunk and make herself look like an idiot. I do get along with her for the most part its when there is any ind of drama she has to be the one behind it instead of minding her own buisness. So I do empathyze with you I am there and at least your hubby stands behind you thats a plus. :)

Answer 5

Yep and you know what....she destroyed my husband's first marriage and when he saw the same sh*t starting to happen with ours and realized it was his MOM...he gave HER the old heave hoe...and we don't miss her b/s at all. It's her loss too because my husband's the only one of her kids that was able to have kids so she doesn't see her grandchildren either!

Answer 6

not only is my mother-inlaw trying to fail my marriage to her daughter by telling her that iwaswith another woman but she has entered the room where i was drying off from a shower and tried to persuade me to give her some this body of mine. this was pathetic at the most but who could i tell about the matter. she's not even attractive. since i didn't give her any she is on this campagne to ruin my marriage. the fatttt greasy gross everloving mc donalds sausage biscuit eating, i want to party-*ss,watermelon eating bi-atch. did i mention mc donalds biscuit eating... i need a hug. signed:tanyas husband

Answer 7

Well i'm not married,but my boyfriend mother is controlling. she tries to control him with money. she also condone him to cheat. He is locked up and i recently found out that he is cheating with a guard that works at the prison, she gives him money to cheat. Then she tries to set people up. she used to pay guys to call my house to make it seem as if i am cheating. She is pure evil she lie on people to get them fired from their jobs. Pay people to lie on you etc. any way no you are not wrong it says in the bible to leave your mother and father and cleave to your spouse. If she is disturbing your house hold then you had every right. You have the right to live in peace!!!!!

Answer 8

My mother in law is a hypocondriac,pillhead,pitty self absorbed,and selfish sorry excuse for a mother, And this doesnt even begin to describe her!

Answer 9

definitely but you are lucky usually husbands don't back up their wives and we have to just put up with her ugh!!!!!! All we can do is ignore her harassing voicemails and drunken phone calls and pray she goes quicker then we do, it sounds awful but nobody knows the torture until they have been there, it took my husband three years before he realized how much SHE was destroying his marriage, now he hates her almost as much as I do, and I usually can get along with everyone, not this giant B*******.

Answer 10

I think you have a fence to mend quickly. I didn't say back down, I said mend...find a way to become friends..she is jealous at this time, and it may or may not pass, but at least try to smooth the situation over. You will loose in the long run, and you may need a baby sitter one day. NO MAN wants his wife and mother to be going to it...and I don't care what he says. She may be the biothc from hell, but you are big enough to stand your ground, be big enough to smooth it over without giving her the idea that she was right. Good luck