I used to want sex every day but my husband didn't. Now he does and I don't. Help.
2006-10-14 09:33:56 · 9 answers · asked by yellowgrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex drives are strange. This will happen all through out the marriage. I have been through this myself several times, I have been with my husband 27 years tomorrow. Honey, you can get some pep vitamins at health food store. One thing is that the bedroom becomes the only place in the house. It's not put some spice back into the relationship. Go dancing, out to eat, find the dating and can't wait feeling again.
We get so caught up in our everyday lives, we forget to take time for ourselves. The clothes need washing, the dust bunnies are attacking...so what...put off the clothes off till tomorrow and I promise you those dust bunnies won't bite. Go pamper yourself, get a new haircut, and a sexy outfit...feel good about yourself, and if need be go pick up some pep pills.
This is perfectly normal, and I am afraid to tell it will happen again down the road. So, I am happy you are finding out what to do now, so you can be prepared for the next time. Remember to do something special for yourself, my friend loves to get her nails done, each of us has something to make us feel good and beautiful. Sweetie, I hope this help just a little. Been there done that, and will can....
God bless us all...........
2006-10-14 11:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know the feeling I had two kids and now I have no sex drive either. I knwo why mine is though. I run a daycare and have kids all day so I am beat and too tired for sex. Are you stressed
2006-10-14 16:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by apples2oo4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be the reason why you don't want sex anymore but it's all in your head just think about sex all day.
2006-10-14 16:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by One Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a sex novelty store to get some "toys." Find some that involve two people and get you aroused. The next time he asks, get them out and invite him to "play." He'll like it and you will too.
2006-10-14 17:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by charlie_n_tx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start watching more porn to get more ideas. I think you're just bored and you want to try something new and different. Just hope they invent the female viagra in the future.
2006-10-14 16:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by JB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is Viagra for men and there is also a pill for women, ask your doctor!
2006-10-14 16:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch porn or he isn't sleeping with his girlfriend anymore. Good Luck!
2006-10-14 16:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has caused you not to want him any longer. .
2006-10-14 17:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use pills.
2006-10-14 16:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by Pitambri 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋