i just got married,,i am a indian so according to our mythology bride & groom cannot meet before marriage thats why we both didnt know much about each other..so every time i ask her something about her ..she refuses...plz any married experienced person tell me what should i do to tell her my feelings & know her feeling about me....plz answer..
2006-10-14 09:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now you see why arranged marriages are bad. Your own WIFE is a complete stranger and she's too scared to open up.
She'd frightened. Since you two are strangers, it's going to take her some time to get comfortable around you. It's going to take time. Be patient.
2006-10-14 09:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prashant,
Just give her some time if she doesn't open up to you at all I don't know how you could possibly continue this relationship I would give it 6 months and try to get to know her by telling her about yourself do things that make you laugh do things you enjoyed before you met her. Do you live in India? If so and she is still stubborn after a period of time move to another country.
2006-10-14 16:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by shawn_mauldin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be kind and give her some time. You have just married and she may be having a harder time adjusting than you would have thought. Just take it slow and be kind, she may open up soon.
2006-10-14 16:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by r_k_winters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking her questions for now. If you never met before, she is still adjusting to the change of being married. You cannot just assume that she knows what answers will please you.
2006-10-14 17:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by micah7941 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there's no chemistry! She's not quite ready to open up ...you better start asking people who have been in arranged marriages.
2006-10-14 16:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
arranged marriages are bad you don't even know if you like eachother. She might be scared to tell you things SHE DOSE NOT KNOW YOU. Sad for you both.
2006-10-14 16:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋