2006-10-14 12:01:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to train 'em like children. I just don't put up w/any crap. At times, my wife thinks I'm an Uber-asshole but I could care less. I sleep good every night. 99% of the time we get along really good, but there are times when she tries to see how far she can push me. At times like this,I have to put her into her place, and I don't back down. How many time has your wife fcuked up and when you fight about it, she twist it around and has YOU apologizing? This NEVER happpens with me. I can see this ploy a mile off and I nip it in the bud.
What exactly is she doing or not doing that you want corrected? You gave no examples. If I had an idea, I may be able to give you better insights. And the guys you see here who are going "you shouldn't, you couldn't, you have an attitude problem, blah blah blah," those are the guys who've been 'vaginized'. Men without nuts. Those are the ones who let their women run roughshod over them and don't have the balls to speak up. See 'em every day, and it's sad.
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2006-10-14 12:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Larry F 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
What can he do? Some think that it is good to beat a woman into submission but the only thing most of them get beat into is a comma. There is a law in the bible from God that the man is the head of the woman. Most men are confused with what this means. This doesn't mean that he rules his wife and that whatever he says goes. God's headship precedes a man's and so if a man tells a woman to do something that God says not to then the woman must listen to God. Men seem to forget often that they have a head-Jesus. And Jesus set the perfect example as to how to be a good family head. If a wife does not obey and submit to her husband what he need to do is to God fro faith and patience and also he needs to set a good example and this can win his wife over.
2016-03-18 09:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a bit contradictory. If she is your wife, you took vows, didnt you vow to 'love, honor and cherish?' I dont recall anything about 'obey'...If you have a power struggle, or feelings of dominance, you might need to seek marriage counseling. If you really mean she is running wild, she needs to go with you. It should be 50/50 as far as a marriage goes, that is if you want it to work. Good Luck to you,
BluesGypsy
2006-10-14 13:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by bluesgypzy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this is a real question....then you can not make any adult obey you if they have ANY respect for themselves...you can get them to work with you....be your partner...but NOT obey.
Now....if this is just another question to get people worked up...which I think it is as MOST people that live in the real world already know what I said above....THEN...all you have to do is like the cave men did....hit them on the head with a stick.
2006-10-14 12:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put a baseball bat in her hands and turn around and let her knock the hell out of you. No woman should have to obey any man. Men and women should have enough respect and love for each other when they take their vows to respect each others wishes.
2006-10-14 13:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by ladymich 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is not a dictatorship that u have to make your spouse do everything u tell her to do. Instead communicate with her and let her know what u want without being commanding her. If she doesn't agree, then come to a compromise where u will both be happy with the outcome.
2006-10-14 12:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU SHOULD HAVE STARTED THE TRAINING BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED. Ok You have to wind down the relationship, start an affair with a more willing and compliant woman (Loads out there and all great to be with) The explain to wife your needs, and what is required to stay together......she either toes the line or is replaced....
2006-10-14 12:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What??????? Obey you?? If my husband said I needed to obey him I would kick him in the shins. Try some communication and some compromising.
2006-10-14 12:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by gaillee9 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here in the states a woman doesn't HAVE to obey her husband. If you wanted someone who was totally subserviant to you then you should have gotten a trainable pet I would say a dog but even they will bite back if their owners mistreat them.
2006-10-14 22:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need an attitude adjustment if you think that you need to make her obey you. Don't forget that you are both adults or maybe that's the problem, you got married too early and your both immature
2006-10-14 12:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by jaysangman 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋