posted a question two days ago about fighting with my man, he walked out tried to call him after an hour he wouldnt answer, stayed out till the pubs closed.
Well he came back with his tail between his legs NO apoligies though! he did want to be 'close' which i recipracated,HOWEVER the next day it was 'my fault' he had gone out in the first place and spent 50 quid!!! WHAT AM I MISSING???
2006-10-14 09:45:51 · 14 answers · asked by julie knows 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He needs counseling for alcohol abuse, and possibly counseling for your marriage, it sounds like he favors a pint over anything. Don't make the same mistakes I made marrying an alcoholic. Alcoholism is not a character defect. It is an illness that can destroy everything in your life. It may not be at that point in his drinking but he needs to take a look at his alcohol abuse. Good luck hun.....
2006-10-14 09:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Matt M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give the guy a break why don't ya,
You had an argument, he went out and got it out of his system,
in the pub,so he spent 50 quid?,he came back and yous made up.
Now you you wont admit you where wrong.
God you women are always right.
I know some women that can have a argument with there own shadow.?
2006-10-14 09:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask how he spent the 50 and ask why he didnt answer his phone when you tried to call if he still doesnt want to answer ask if he will go into counseling with you as a family if that doesnt work leave and dont look back there are alot of decent guys still out there
2006-10-14 10:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by milliondollarbabe25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that your man doesn't know how to admit his faults and doesn't want to. Afterall, it takes two to have an argument and contrary to what he said, no one can make him stay out all night. He chose to do that all on his own. While I can understand wanting to leave the house and cool off for a couple of hours, he shouldn't be gone all night and then blame u the next day for his own actions. Sounds like a bunch of excuses to me.
2006-10-14 09:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the fight was about, however those are common guilty conscious behavior patterns! On his part ! then they get mad because you're mad at them! My first husband did theses things no matter what the argument was about, he was cheating and needed a reason to leave the house!
2006-10-14 09:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tara w 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
apart from 50 quid the plot. no apologies and him wanting to be close are signs of guilt. sorry but hope all works out for you xxx
2006-10-14 09:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by keith0866 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ronnie's right,foxy lady and gabby too,just move on,don't keep on!
2006-10-14 14:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Julie n.
WOW! such a nice understanding lady.
Why aren't there more like you?
2006-10-14 09:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Norman Bates 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys just do this sometimes. Don't sweat the small stuff; pick your battles carefully.
2006-10-14 09:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by rlms_girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what hes upto so join him when he goes out.
2006-10-14 09:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋