Guys: Do you prefer to have sex with the lights on or off and why?

Question

As a woman, I prefer the lighs being off because of my figure, I am very uncomfortable. My mate prefer with them on, but as I stated earlier it makes me feel uncomfortable, very uncomfortable.

Answer 1

My husband prefers the lights on as he wants to see everything. I prefer dim lights.

Answer 2

As a man looking at it from both directions, the best way is with a little light, that way you can see each other, look into each others eyes and not end up grabbing the wrong bits!! Plus of course it's still dark enough not to notice each others imperfections....... so try a hall light or put a small bedside table on the floor for that romantic time with your special guy.

Answer 3

Ya'll should keep them off if you feel that uncomfortable. For me, either way is fine. If I am with a person who I feel 100% secure with lights on or off are fine. The one reason I LIKE the lights on is because I'm visual (most guys are, aren't they?) I like to see the woman I am attracted to . . . no matter what your figure is like there are certain aspects of your physical being that your man is going to find amazingly sexy . . . do you have pretty feet/toes? Is your hair like silk? Are your eyes deep and mesmerizing? You get my drift . . .

Answer 4

i prefer to have then off as well for one doing it make you sweat you get all hot and feel like you gonna pass out 2 no lights on last longer and its better some people have to see where they are at did it come out some people need the light on so they can look at hole and see and think how much space they might need lol some people need lights on because they want to make sure that you dont go any where lol and why because some people are stupid dont do it if the light bothers you and he cantr respect you go to kids r us buy a barbie ruler and give it to him lol

Answer 5

both . . .

the dark leads to a focus on the sense of touch and hearing and has this feeling of sheltered safety.

I don't really like artificial electric lights so much . . .but candle light is nice and I absolutley love the twilight . . right after the sun has set . . .i love being able to see all the nuances of the body i'm connecting with.

Answer 6

I'm not the best looking guy either and find bright light very discomforting like you do. However, men are more visually stimulated than women, so I tend to like low light so I can see her face and all her nice little parts when I'm nibbling if you get my meaning.

Answer 7

From time to time it's fun with the lights off but most of the time, the lights should be on! That way I can appreciate the female form!

Answer 8

On for sure. I love to watch my wife as she is getting close to...well you know lol. I find it a very big turn on to just watch her go through different phases. She likes the lights off because she is not happy with her body...but I think she is still hot *S*

Answer 9

for me personally i like the lights on, it's more sensual to see your partners body while making love. but if you are uncomfortable doing it with the lights on, why not meet halfway and maybe try dimlights. it does both of you a favor and let the games begin.

Answer 10

It really doesn't matter, with them off and really dark its more mysterious as to what is next. On the other hand I like to see my wife excited and feeling good, helps me get more excited. You shouldn't worry about your body, let your actions take over. You should hopefully feel comfortable with your mate in any situation clothed or unclothed.