Cause it seems everyone chooses to cheat cause "they still love " whoever it is they're cheatin on, when in essence if you need somebody else to satisfy you then you DON'T love them..and probably only being satisfied in the manner a friend would....so why be the *****/hoe, homewrecker, blah blah, get labeled as the bad guy/girl, and just kick homey or homegirl to the curb and THEN go release your energy? Cause if you're afraid that person will be hurt, or they'll hate you...WELL **** they'll hate you even more if you cheated, and it's obvious if you gotta cheat you ain't really feelin that guy/girl 100%, so why pretend and get into more drama. (if you're a drama queen, well...i understand...but for those that aren't....dammit.). I'm just curious.
2006-10-14 23:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by Dennis 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there's a lot of reason actually; some call it "testing the water" , they want to hook up with someone(B) while having a partner(A) already to check if they really love partner A...
to some it gives them the thrill, the challenge, ego, hiding another relationship without the partner's knowledge..
to some? just for the heck..
2006-10-14 23:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by evbthl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is happening at home if the spouse/partner is cheating. Maybe for instance the spouse plays golf all the frigin time and is never home. It could be that she is angry with him and wants to get his attention. I know that isn't the right way but at least you see some emotion coming out. But I did find out the hard way that it hurts more than one person, it affects the whole family. I have to say there are consequences to cheating and everyone no matter who will have to deal with that eventually.
2006-10-15 07:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people who do cheat are selfish they want to be with there mate and be able to go out there when they are feeling lonely or ignored. i agree with you i just feel that now a days people don't use the word love like it is meant to be .For all the cheaters let me say when you love someone you don't cheat nor deceive them
2006-10-15 07:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. i think there is more of a soul match witht the boyfriend girlfrien. its every guys fantasy to be with another girl after a while of being with the same one, but they only want it as a one time thing every couple years or something thats why they dont break up.
2006-10-15 07:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, another relationship for the wrong reasons. Is it cheating if you were just in it for the sex anyway?
2006-10-15 08:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greed factor.
2006-10-15 08:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right on the money,I agree all the way with you.
2006-10-15 06:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed. Very well said.
2006-10-15 07:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋