My husband go out twice a week with his friend and come home after mid night.I cann't tolerat this kind of act. I belive a marrid man shouldn't act like this.I have decided to divorce him.Pease advice.
2006-10-14 21:07:17 · 21 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Twice a week is a bit steep, but I think you should both have the freedom to see your friends (of the same sex) now and then without feeling guilty. Why don't you make an outing with some of your friends now and then, that might teach him what it is all about.
2006-10-14 21:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by EC 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It certainly seems excessive! I think all men need some time away on occasion but twice a week? I would be curious to know if there are children involved. I can understand even more your frustration if you are having to take care of the children alone during this time. Have you TALKED to him about it? I don't think you should make the decision to just divorce him unless you have actually talked about it and he is unwilling to change. At least go see a counselor or your pastor. Maybe he doesn't realize it bothers you this bad. I don't think he would be willing to let his marriage go for the sake of going out 2 nights a week unless he's not committed to it in the first place.
2006-10-15 04:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you would want to divorce him over going out a couple of nights a week.....I know I would want to do the same thing,Try looking at it in a different perspective ....Everyone needs a little space away every now and then...
2006-10-15 04:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe once or twice a week is ok, as long as he spends plenty of time with you. My husband does this too, but I have my own life as well, so it is no big deal. Maybe you can go out altogether or you can out go with your friends and he can go out with his friends and then you can all meet up at the end of the night? I'm sure you can work this out. HTH : )
2006-10-15 04:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey I would divorce him too! Good luck to you! A married man that is faithful has no business going out twice a week and coming home so late! F**k that!!!!
2006-10-15 04:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Twice a week sounds a bit much, but give him space for his self and use the time for your issues.
2006-10-15 04:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
twice a week is fine u should keep a space and u could enjoy ur life 2 with friends
2006-10-15 04:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like he thinks he is still single. I don't see what a married man is doing still going out twice a week with his buddies. I would kick his butt out and let him have his freedom. Don't put up with this crap. Tell "party boy" to grow up!
2006-10-15 04:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think discussion with hubby is cheaper than divorce.
2006-10-15 04:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by Vern M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well... i understand .. alot of men i think are like this.. i odnt think that they EVER grow up its soo annoying i hate it .. well it depends on how long he was doing this to if u should of got a divorce
2006-10-15 04:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋